Shy Guy's Dating Guide to Success With Women
There are thousands of websites, eBooks, guides, course etc. out there that teach you how to approach women. Yup, you can learn everything from what type of shoes make you appear more sexy in a woman's eyes, to sleazy straight to the point pick up lines that are more likely to get you slapped than in bed with a beautiful girl.
But no matter what these courses teach you, they have one thing in common. And that is they all teach that
CONFIDENCE IS KEY to approaching women.
So knowing all the stupid pickup lines, magic tricks and "secrets" in the world might help out your day dreams, all this wont do you much good when trying to approach a women unless you have the confidence to look her in the eyes and tell her how you feel and what you want from her.
For many men, approaching a pretty girl they like can feel as if they have an anxiety disorder. The nervousness and anxiety can become so bad when trying to "pick up" a pretty girl, that you might actually experience symptoms that are similar to those of a panic attack!
Now let me ask you this, when you are thinking about or are about to approach a beautiful girl that you like.
Do you experience any of these symptoms:
- Racing thoughts
- Racing Heart Beat
- Feeling sick
- Words come out wrong
- Difficulty breathing
- Lump in throat
- Difficulty swallowing
- Mind drawing a blank
- Butterflies in tummy
- Fear of stuffing up
- Fear of rejection
- Sweaty palms
If so, this guide will help you over come your fears and approach beautiful women with ease and confidence. No fear of rejection, no sweaty palms, no overwhelming anxiety. Just "hey baby, how's it going" with no problems of any kind!
But before we get into the "meat" of this guide, there is some very simple facts you absolutely MUST know about women that are sure to make you feel better as you go over them:
Simple Facts About Women - Most women are just as nice and friendly as you and me, they are not mean to strangers and will NOT slap you or scream "Pervert" when you approach them.
Check Your Confidence Level
- When it comes to dating, a confident guy always has an edge over shy guy. As a matter of fact, you could rarely see woman approach a guy and ask for a date. Guy will make the first move, most of the time.
Eliminating Negative Self Talk
- Your subconscious mind will often try to do everything within it's power to prevent you from doing what you want by telling you all kinds of nonsense.
Creating Positive Self Talk
- What you ask yourself WILL directly affect your self-esteem and confidence therefore increasing your anxiety when faced with approaching a woman.
Building Your Confidence - There are many ways to build your confidence, you can work out to look and feel great, try to always look your best, or even drink a little alcohol to get a little "Liquor Courage". What I'm going to talk about is how to build your confidence by way of affirmation.
Preparation Before Approaching Woman
- Have you ever approached a girl, got her attention and then had nothing to say? That can be a big braw back because silence and awkward moments will NOT help you get anyone's phone number.
Planning Your Conversation
Topics - Planning your conversations, where were we? That's right, getting out the pen and paper and planning what you will say, starting with your greeting.
Dating Conversation Topics Examples - I have quite a large number of questions I have banked up that I use often on people. But I won't list all of them here. Besides some of them may not be suitable for me to mention here and I don't want to offend anyone.
Proper Breathing to Calm Down - If you hyper-ventilate or find it hard to breathe when approaching women, then this part of the book can be of great help to you.
Exercise to Reduce Anxiety and Depression
- Exercise gives you more energy, helps you sleep better, makes your heart stronger, helps your circulation, increases your lung capacity expand, makes your muscles stronger.
Removing Negativity Thoughts
- What can happen once you actually approach a woman, start talking to her and is that you might go blank for a second and might start getting negative thoughts.
In the beginning of this section, I gave you some simple facts about women. I reassured you that most women are just like men, they are not evil rejection machines that are out to embarrass every guy that approaches them.
Women are not the enemy, in most cases men are their own worst enemy when it comes to approaching women.
It is your negative thoughts, anxiety and fear of rejection that stops you from getting the girl you like. Of course you already know this, so what's my point?
My point is that instead of learning all kinds of crazy pickup lines, sleazy tricks to get women into bed and tricks to get women to like you. You should simply work on your confidence and in most cases the rest will take care of itself.
And the sooner you realize that you are worthy of just about any women on the planet, and know that women are simple people just like you and me you will be able to approach girls no problem with your confidence growing every time you talk to a girl.
For shy guy that has concern in their physical appearance and suffer
"emotional block" that holding you back from meeting woman,
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