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How to Approach Woman at Retail Store

Question :

I'm working in a retail outlet in the local shopping mall where hundreds of walk-in customers come in everyday (women especially).

How do you think is the best way for me to capitalize on this position I'm in to approach the women there without seeming to upfront?

Chez

My Comments :

Dude, you have LOTS for you going on here. So make FULL USE and LEVERAGE on your position over there.

Apart from being a good/responsible employee, try to become the customer's FRIEND. Big difference there.

Serve them well, get them comfortable interacting with you.

Obviously the first step for you is to get their name. It's perfectly normal for you as a sales person to know your customers and the name's the obvious way to go.

Once you've been talking to them for a while, 3-5 minutes, ask for contact details eg. email / phone number. Let them know WHY you need them perhaps you'd like to contact them when you have new stuff arriving at your store and you can be the first person to let them know about it.

Consider it an 'insider' update to them. Let them know the benefits they're getting just for knowing you. Do it in a way that you're just a normal guy who gets job satisfaction seeing 'friends' happy :-)

Sort of "fish bowl" technique, get what I mean?

It's all about natural, subtle game.

So when you call them to inform about new stock arrivals (they don't necessarily have be new, just make them up along the way), introduce yourself first and get them to remember who you are.

Then, after telling them about the stocks, include small talk.

There's many ways to go about this. Example:

You: "Hey, know what.. there are several types of colors for this dress. Personally I feel, you looks great in the white one. Just like the one you wore the day you came in. 

Her: You remembered? 

You: How couldn't I? 

Her: *inner* smile.

You can take it from there ... you get the drift...

Guys.. any fly ideas to help out our bro here?..


 

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    By Katrina

2009-10-12 16:53:59

My advice: don¨t go for her phone number too soon or she will get scared or think you are desperate. Be friendly and become her friend, if she is interested she will come back again to see you. katrina.traviesa69@gmail.com


    By Jason

2007-08-22 11:47:10

personally i wouldn't work the name and phone number angle right away. if she seems like someone you want to get to know better, do your sales thing first (answer questions, make suggestions, etc) and if she seems interested get her name and contact info. i worked in high end retail for 7 years and i pulled many chicks this way. the OP is right, be friends first and know your stuff so they dont feel like you are pulling sh*t out your ass. if they trust you it makes things go much smoother. one time i simply said "wow, i see a lot of women walk through here but i just had to stop you and ask you for your name". she was without a doubt one of the hottest chicks i ever dated. another time after about 30 mins of showing merchandise and conversing i gave her my card with my cell number on the back. she asked if she could call for reasons other than business. we had crazy sex that night. you can also build a rapport with a client and if you see them at a local spot, hit them up and introduce yourself, chat as if you are already friends. its an easy way to approach someone this way if you arent comfortable hitting on random girls in a club. bottom line: just be laid back but professional, definitely know the product you are selling and be genuine. dont forget to flirt.


    By Joe

2007-08-01 21:26:37

Yea, let me just say I've done this, but it comes off bad if you push for stuff like phone numbers, etc (seriously why would you do that unless it really looks like she'd be interested). BUT, should you make a GOOD impression and happen to run into her by accident later, that's when you're good to go with remember me, etc.


    By Sam

2007-08-01 08:21:46

Wow, this is really tough. I never thought of how to approach woman this way. Simplest way I would suggest is to make a good impression so the woman can remember you. Start with a smile and friendly greeting. The next time when the same person came in, rapport already build.



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