Playing Hard to Get Games

    By Lafanda

2009-02-06 13:35:24

woah baby i've been dating this kid for about 3 years now and we gettin' pretty serious if you know what i mean so listen... he be all up in my grill working thaanggg and i give right back but now he is sayin he found a new girl imma holla at her and tell her whats up cuz sista you don't mess with me Lafanda out girlz

    By chocolate

2008-09-26 15:55:46

i like this boy he likes me to but always playing hard to get

    By kaci

2007-10-19 13:09:49

if you know she likes you just be honest... and DON'T play hard to get. she'll lose intrest and find someone else.

    By Andrew

2006-10-18 09:03:37

Not dinner or movie, that's too much like a date, like someone else said, coffee.

    By Online Hashemi

2006-10-02 20:19:06

Go for it man. You are the man, and you do what you want to when you want to. And nows the time you do it.

    By JD

2006-09-28 16:53:52

Then if all proves to be a yay yah situation. Then look at yourself and see if you two match in looks, goals, and et cetera (and this varies with age). Studies shows that couples who are equally as attractive are more likely to last and have happier relationships. If it fits, then you MUST NOT aquit and go ahead and ask what she likes to do for fun (smile when you do this)? After she answers, then go for it.

    By JD

2006-09-28 16:51:16

I think first you must EVALUATE on how you perceive the fact that she 'likes' you or was she just being friendly? What signs did she show that she liked you?

    By CORE

2006-09-27 09:35:07

She might not definetly like you but you should prove her that you are the man she desires. Perhaps you might even discover that she's not your type! ;) Personally you should TELL HER that you are going to have a coffee or something similiar and you wanted her to join and entertain you perhaps adding a bit of humor when you say it! Even if she doesn't like you she will come. She will surely be intrigued. If she likes you that works in your favour!

    By Kate

2006-09-27 07:52:25

just go 4 it,ask her out.simple as ABC.

    By Gabriel Ekwere

2006-09-27 07:10:20

Perhaps she is a bite joking to know how serious u are. Is no point playing hard to get game with her. Assess her very well to know if she is a kind of girl you wish to have as a friend or wife then lower your pride and be serious with her at least for once. Who knows if she is actually your wife to be in your life. Be confident and watchful. Good luck.

    By bhul

2006-09-27 05:15:19

go infront of her, hold her hand, say what you feel and smile on full length,with full confidence

    By Abdullah

2006-09-27 05:03:31

be honest with her, if she likes you,then try reading "Double your dating" and u'll know the rest :) it really helped me a lot, like a lot, it gave me self-confidence

    By karan

2006-09-27 04:41:46

don't wait for her response. don't play hard to get. be a strong and confident guy and just lead her

    By mehdi

2006-09-27 03:49:28

I advise you to invite her to a casual coffee chat or anything else such as an interesting movie but not to a formal date.when you want to do so be confident and say i'm going to watch the new film on. i've heard it's fantastic and say "you can come with me if you like".don't be needy and your gesture must show her that you don't care if she won't come with you.have fun.

    By ashley

2006-09-27 02:45:33

buddy, it is the time to become a MAN'S MAN IN LIFE... go,go..

    By Kingslayer

2006-09-26 23:40:54

If you hang around -thinking of a grand strategy, someone else might... ** . So I suggest you take the lead. Do not apppear desperate, Be in control, and playfull... Watch her reaction to what you say, get the clue. Act on it..

    By Tumi

2006-09-26 23:19:01

Only babez play hard to get so my advice is you tell her straight what's in and what's out you understand, else the are lots of fishes in the see,

    By Jam

2006-09-26 22:50:20

If you sincerely like the girl, go forward and make it known to her. Life is unpredictable these days, anything can happen, as such why wait? The longer you wait...the more you play hard to get...you are only denying yourself from what you truly desire, and the girl that you like will never get a chance to know your true feelings. Time waits for no man, she may by then (through time) would have given her heart to someone else. Express your love to her...the only risk you lose is if she does not reciprocate otherwise it would be the beginning of something very beautiful between the two of you. All the very best to you. Go with your heart as it speaks louder than words.

    By jman

2006-09-26 19:51:50

i am in a smiliar boat but i also have been there before and realize afterwards taht this person was just being real nice and liked the company but never really intended to get together as a couple. i say if she already likes you then you have won half the battle but maybe you should spend more time getting to know her and dating her first and be sure that the feelings are mutual and that it isn't just a strong feelings of love that might change in a few weeks. sometimes we get caught up in falling in love with falling in love. good luck and keep us posted because i would like to know what you would happens. thanks for sharing

    By James G

2006-09-26 19:48:44

Hey, I just met this beautiful girl in college, she is in two of my classes. In the past I never wold have went up to her, but after reading all this material, I hit on hundreds of girls and I'm getting much better at getting phone numbers. Only problem is its usually school related so the tricky part is starting out studying at my hoiuse together and then trying to get romantic with her, I have to take my time here. Anyway I met this gorgeous girl Christine and she isknockout opolish and young, but we became study partners and twext and call each other all the time until today she tells me she's dating a polish police officer for only 2 weeks. I moved too slow i think, but awnyway she complains that he is not thoughtful and they never talk on the phone which she loves to do with her boyfriend. I am now oving to try to persuade her that he is no good for her and that I am the right one and it may be working, she treats me like she likes me and is upset she ever hooked up with this cop in the first place, where do i go from here to win her over and to not have the cop come after me. James Gibbons

    By Brent

2006-09-26 19:19:21

This answer is simple, both go for the kill while still playing hard to get. Never stop playing hard to get, you are not incontrol until you sleep with her, then you have the upper hand and can start to act more into her, but keep playing the game. People always want what they cant have period!

    By Ricardo

2006-09-26 18:50:51

PS: I´ve noticed that we , guys who are learning this stuff about being successfull with women, tend to go to the extreme...i´ve also made this same mistake...and you know what? there was a time when i was extremelly playfull and cocky and funny with girls, but i did not get the results i wanted...why? because i was being UN-natural and girls pick this up REALLY fast when dealing with men. Of course...you´ll get a few succsess stories with some psycho and excentric girls, but if you want to date hot, normal,and cool girls, you have to be natural and congruent...don´t OVERDO the cocky and funny, playing hard to get things...just play with them...have fun and stay calm...We are all here to learn and trust me, taking things to the extreme is not the best. It took me about a year to realize this, and now im trying to make my game more "down to earth". that´s all....see ya soon and if you have any advices to me, feel free to email me.

    By Ricardo

2006-09-26 18:42:49

Hey man...look, playing hard to get can backfire. It all depends. If you consider yourself a good looking guy, the girl will probably assume that you have social value, so if you play hard to get, she may start feeling insecure and you will want to cut your balls when you see her with the first dumbass she´s gonna meet after you did not asked her out.My advice is that you test her...make a few FUNNY coments about her trying to pick you up, and see how she reacts...if she laughs and responds ,then she probably has a high self esteem and you can turn up the heat by asking her if she could handle a date with you without trying to kidnapp you or tie you in her basement ;-)(my favourite fun comments when asking a girl out). however if she gets nervous and does not respond to the cocky and funny coments, then she´s either shy or insecure and you don´t want to settle with a girl like that. Im actually dating an insecure ,high maintenance girl and trust me...it sucks.Well hope you find this lines usefull...feel free to email me and exchange ideas. Greetings. Ricardo (from Argentina)

    By Juan Carrillo

2006-09-26 18:37:06

perhaps you should think about telling her jokes, think about them even if they're from comedies or listen to the jokes someone tells you