How To Strike Up Conversations With Women
I read Instant Attraction Program per your recommendation and I'd have to say it's great info ! Thanks so much i learnt a great deal from it! I'm doing MUCH better with the girls now but i want more.
I want to be able to meet girls anywhere and be able to pick them up right away. how do i do that? oh fantastic newsletter btw keep up the good work. always looking forward to your mails.
>>> My Reply :
Thanks for the kind words Kingsy. It's been a pleasure of mine to help whenever I can :-)
Ok as for your question, yea I do know what you mean. You want to have THAT kind of power, to be able to just walk up to ANY woman and weave your 'magic' on her right? =)
It's a BIG question no doubt, and what I've seen most guys going through this is the fact that it's more on getting your INNER GAME handled more than anything else!
Not so much on techniques.
Unfortunately most guys tend to think otherwise.
Why do I say that?
Well, think about it. Most of the time when you see a woman you'd like to meet, what do you do?
"Damn is she hot. Ok what am I going to say.. come on.. ok. It's got to be something
original. Something creative. Errm... Errm."
(She walks off)
See, that's the problem.
Most guys make the mistake of wanting to be 'original' and creative in their pick-up lines when they want to meet a girl.
A THOUSAND things will run through their minds all at once. They become nervous. Their hands become sweaty. She walks away (possibly forever) after a few seconds And in the end they do NOTHING.
I've said it once and I'll say it again.
Meeting strangers (women) off the bat is more than just coming up with
'original lines'.
It's much MUCH more than that.
It took me a while to figure this out, initially I too was engrossed in looking for 'techniques' but after having observed buddies of mine who were pick-up 'masters' with women, I soon
realized it's all a matter of having the right MINDSET towards the entire thing (approaching women).
When your INNER GAME is set straight, EVERYTHING ELSE becomes A PART of you. What you say to them, how you talk to them, your body language, etc.
It'll naturally be CONGRUENT in what you want to project to her (your target) and she'll be able to tell instantly.
So my advice is this... forget pick-up lines altogether and build your entire 'self' as a whole first.
There's small subtle inner 'rules' you have to follow and get handled, then you progress to the 'techniques', and when you're ready, you then move on to the more 'advanced' stuff.
To me, the most NATURAL way to open up a woman is by using situational openers.
This is where I'll use whatever that's around me as a 'hook' to get them to open up.
If I'm at a grocery store, I'll say...
"Hey you look like someone who's good at this. I'm always stumped on how to differentiate the sweet mangoes from the sour ones..."
If she's standing next to me about to pick up a tub of Ben & Jerry's, I'll say...
"Errm, I won't pick that if I were you..."
Her: ?? Why...
You: Well, if you're a true ice-cream fan, there's another that'll absolutely make your taste buds tingle with
ecstasy!
Her: Oh really?? And what's that?
You: Bla, bla, bla
If I was sipping coffee and I see a woman I'd like to meet, I'd say...
"Hey, you look familiar, you're a friend of Wendy's, right?"
Her: ?? No..
You: Damn. I should've said Jennifer...
Her: (Laughs).
You: So is this your usual hang out place?...
Her: Bla, bla, bla
Or it could be as easy as saying a simple "hi" to start off a conversation (this is one of the most grossly UNDERUTILIZED technique in striking up conversations, it works FABULOUSLY when you know how to FOLLOW IT UP with the right lines... ;-)
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David Kwan
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