Overcome your shyness
How can I build and improve my self-confidence and charm ?
Don't try everything you've learned all at once. Approach many
women. Say whatever comes to mind. Study the responses. Carry it as
far as you can go and if it doesn't work out, find another woman and
Over time, not only will you learn how to quickly gain rapport
with almost any woman, you'll also gradually gain confidence,
quick-thinking for immediate conversation starters, and the ability
to stretch "fluff talk" long enough to elicit her values (her value
words) which can then help you lead the conversation.
For example, if she says "I like bright colors..." or "It's a
really bright day out..." then you can ask "What is it about bright,
colorful things that you like so much? She might respond "They
remind me of my youth - carefree times". Then you can lead the
conversation into things that associate you with memories of her
youth, and reinforce the idea that you are a carefree person.
Practice methods like this over and over with different women
until it becomes part of your nature. You will then have
self-confidence and charm without ever thinking about it.
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