Dating Process
Get Dated
Never ask for a first date on Friday or Saturday night These two main, big, serious
date nights are too important a place to start. Start off with a
weekdays like Wednesday or Thursday night, which are nights when
people generally don't have much planned. Also avoid Mondays like
the plague. Everybody hates Mondays.
Timing is everything Don't ask for
tomorrow or next year for a date. Basic rule is to ask for a first
date a week to ten days in advance, but you can break this rule with
impunity as the need arises. You can ignore these guidelines if the
spirit moves you to be spontaneous. For example, "Hey, got time for
a coffee ?" can get you an immediate yes; you can also expand this
invitation to a "maybe next week" if you get a NO. Covering yourself ..
Have it in Good Day You're cuter when you're
happy, and self confidence is sexy. Don't get into the "Well, today
is a write-off, I may as well ask, get rejected, and make it a
perfect score" mentality. You can tolerate being turned down more
easily when you're feeling strong - not to mention that it's a lot
less likely.
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