Signs of Attraction
Being able to tell when a woman is interested in you is an important skill to have if you want to save yourself the trouble trying to go after girls that simply wish you would leave them alone.
The ability to read body language can be extremely beneficial; in fact I'd almost say it's essential if you want to be successful in life, whether that is with women or in your career or just with your mates.
To truly know and understand someone's body language, it can be very helpful to know your subject, as some body language can be confused with "comfort".
Reading body language can also be very beneficial for reducing anxiety around women. If you know what she is feeling, then you know what to expect and where to go next, Instead of trying to second guess from just her verbal language.
We all know that women are great at saying one thing, but often meaning another. So if you can master the skill of body language, then you can be one step ahead. And place yourself at ease.
Eye Contact
Ok, so you're out at a club, there is a hot little number just a table or two away from you. She looks over and makes eye contact with you. Does this eye contact last a little longer then as it would with someone you merely glance across at, let's say in a shopping mall?
Does she go back for round two? Make eye contact with you again? Holding it a little longer again? Yes?
Now unless you look like a complete idiot or your friends have managed to draw on your face: she is attracted to you! Now it's time for the next step (approach her).
Her Posture
I have to admit I do watch for this one a fair bit in others. Its interesting watching this happen in complete strangers you don't know. We're all guilty of it, what's funny though, is since I know this is something that we all do from time to time, I'll even consciously realize it, yet can't stop myself from doing it.
Here is an example:
Say you're strolling down the heart of the city, with little concern for your posture, your shoulders are relaxed, head semi downwards and you are just in your own little world getting on with your day.
Suddenly a sexy girl is walking your way, what do you do? You probably stand up straight, push your chest out and try to look your best as the girl passes, right?
Both women and men use this attraction signal, usually done subconsciously. (As most body language we use is)
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