The open-up level is usually the most difficult. The chat-up should be slightly easier. The overall game plan here is to make your chat gradually more and more personal and so get her deeper and deeper involved as you go on. Make sure she’s still interested before going on to the warm-up level. If she isn’t try another line of chat before you start to bore her!

There are three things to remember here

Don’t expect to do it all today. You’ll probably need a proper one-to-one date before you can get past the chat-up level

Don’t try and get her into bed tonight. (If you do – great but the chances are you won’t date her again.) Far better to work on building up a long lasting relationship so that she’s still there any time you want her in future. Believe me, you can only do this by getting her to feel that you’re the man for her BEFORE it comes to sex.

Getting her phone no., address etc. should be a NUMBER ONE PRIORITY .This way, even if you don’t get through the chat-up level now you can still come back to her again and again.

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Special thanks to Kevin Gaynor for his valuable contribution

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