There is one never-to-be-broken rule about making successful dates :-
YOU decide WHAT TO DO and WHERE TO GO. She’ll be impressed if you act assertively.
Remember, she should plug into your social life. Most girls are attracted to a man with a busy social life – so make it look like this even if it’s not. But, it’s vital that the date is something SHE will like to do. Girls can be a bit selfish in this way so even if you don’t like it, make yourself like it!
These suggestions are pretty good bets :
Pubs. Go for a country pub or out-of-the-way back street place. Not a disco pub with lots of other men waiting to turn her head. (Have you made this mistake before?)
Nightclubs, discos and concerts really are too noisy for a first date.
Walks. Ever popular and cheap. Good for holding hands!
Meals. Be careful here. Most girls worry about their weight and are embarrassed to let men they fancy see them eating a lot. She might refuse a date like this even if she’s dying to date you !
Cinema. An old favourite. YOU pick the film but make sure it’s something SHE will like, preferably a ‘weepy’ – no violent war films!
Sports. Not many girls like watching sport – most of them don’t understand football, so don’t take her to the match. However, if you’re playing a sport and she can watch this will impress her.
A fair or theme park. One of the best dates invented. She’ll be impressed as you win her prizes and prove that you’re not frightened of the roller-coaster!
Family events, e.g. weddings, birthday parties. These can be a bit embarrassing but usually go down well. A lot of girls do go for nice squeaky-clean family boys!
Parties. You don’t need a reason to have a party. Make one up!
Next : How to Be So Great On Dates She’ll Want to Be With You Again and Again
Special thanks to Kevin Gaynor for his valuable contribution
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