How Can I Make Sure I'm Fashionable Enough With Women ?

We are always suggesting that our students spend some money and take some time to upgrade their wardrobes, and to get advice about updating their personal style from salesclerks, hair stylists, or stylish men and women. The phrase “clothes makes the man” has some truth to it; your appearance sends a message about you to women. At one end of the spectrum, that message may be “I’m attractive and together and desirable.” At the other end, the message may be “I dress and look like a pig to tell you women to go to hell!” The good news is, you get to chose.

Most guys who are unsuccessful with women decided on their “look” years ago. They set their style in stone, and haven’t upgraded their “look” since then. Consequently, their haircuts and clothes are hopelessly out-of-date. And that matters to women. Hot women simply will not bed down with a guy whose looks are way out of date. You’ve gotta upgrade.

This doesn’t have to be hard. It can even be fun. First, think about your hair. When was the last time you updated your hairstyle? Find someone with a hairstyle you think is stylish and looks good, and ask him who does his hair. Go to that person, tell them that you want a “new look,” and take their advice. Be sure to also have the stylist teach you how to maintain the look, so you can look stylish every day!

Second, improve your wardrobe. Clothes that are ragged, don’t fit well, or are out of style will keep women away. Go to clothing stores, and tell the clerk that you are looking for a “new look” (you also might want to go with a stylish man you know, or with a stylish women whom you are not trying to seduce). Strongly consider taking their advice. Hint: purchase entire outfits together, rather than randomly.

Above all else, don’t be afraid to try something new in how you look. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but it’ll get you on the hot women’s radar screen for the first time. More importantly, you’ll feel different. You’ll feel more confident, and that will help get you get the girls you desire. It never ceases to amaze us the difference that upgrading a man’s looks can make in his interactions with women.

What To Wear

What’s a good outfit for a man who’s out looking to meet a woman. A suit is too much, jeans and t-shirt too little. Can you recommend an all-around “safe outfit” that looks good on any guy?

It’s not so much what you wear, but how you wear it. If you are 20, you may look good in a backwards cap and torn up jeans. If you are 50, you’ll need to wear something else–a suit might be perfect for you.

They key is to know that, whatever you wear, women look at details, so you should too, when choosing your wardrobe.

Here’s three details to remember :

Clothing must be clean.
It must fit properly, whether it’s torn-up jeans or a business suit.
The little things count–nice shoes, belts and other details can either make you or break your attractiveness to women.