Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   13 July 2001   What Are Your Goals ? Girl-Friend or Girlfriend ?     What's up Doc?   I have a friend who I've gotten very close to in the past few months and I think I'm falling in love with her. I...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   1 August 2001   How to Sell - for the Single Mother   Doc: I am a 39-year-old mother of 4 children, divorced and trying to find the "right mate". How do I go about not scaring men off?   Seeking  ...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   8 Nov 2001   She Doesn't Need Another Girlfriend     I read your article "What are your goals Girl-Friend or girlfriend?" and it relates to my situation. I met this girl a couple of years ago in an art...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   12 Sept 2001   Take That Risk !   Many men and women aren't successful in meeting or dating because they aren't willing to take a risk - the risk to say "hello", the risk to say "yes", the risk to ask for a...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   22 Nov 2001   You Can't "Own" Someone Else !     I have been with the same guy for 9 months.  He has been married twice and has 4 children. The first 6 months things were really good. We became serious...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   25 July 2001   How To Never Be At A Loss For Words   Do you ever get "tongue-tied" when you're talking to someone - especially  someone you're interested in? Next to public speaking, this is the most common...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   24 Oct 2001   Why Do Men Fear Commitment     Dr. Neder,   Why does a guy bolt for the door, when he has everything he wants? I seem to be getting a lot of "I'm afraid of commitment", "We are too...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   09 May 2001   Speak Up! - Getting What You Want in Bed (for Women)   I get a lot of reader mail. Much of it from women, complains about how men don't know how to please their girlfriends. I always have the...

Dating / Relationship Question and Answer   26 Dec 2001   Where to Find Wonderful Women or Magnificent Men   One of the questions that I get asked often is, "Where do I meet a great man?" or "Where can I find beautiful women?" as though there is a place...