The Date For You

It's common knowledge that certain teen-age girls swoon over movie and TV stars. There was Elvis Presley, for instance, and before him Frank Sinatra, and long before his time Rudolph Valentino.

But few girls actually ever expect to date such an idol. In fact, one of the functions of the celebrity is to serve as a focus for early infatuation without ever requiring the girl to do anything about it. It's just as common for a fellow to daydream about a movie queen-and a good safe practice, because he will never be expected to court and win her.

Occasionally, however, a young person goes overboard in a crush on some unattainable person, so that he doesn't make progress with those who are realistically available to him. It's not just die movie or TV personality who's unattainable. 

Many a young girl swoons over the football captain, the president of the senior class, or the most popular boy in the school, with whom she hasn't the ghost of a chance. Indeed, she wouldn't even know what to do on such a spectacular date if she had it. 

Similarly, an inexperienced boy will sometimes moon over a popular teacher, or the school queen-as unattainable for him as Miss Universe.

As long as these super romantic crushes prevail, the in experienced boy or girl will probably make little progress in getting a date with anyone; for no real and available person can rival the "dream's" charms and popularity.

Realistically, the beginning dater starts with someone who is not much more socially active than he is. The boy who has never dated courts rejection or failure by asking out the most popular girl in the class two years ahead of him. 

But he may make a good start with a friendly not-too-experienced girl a year or two younger than he is. A girl who wants to begin dating should look about for some pleasant, shy, interested fellow in her own grade (or a class or so beyond) rather than wistfully pine for an older, inaccessible man about town.

Comment This Article	Date
By PK	2008-06-25 21:22:14
I have tried numerous times at getting a date but every time has been a failure. They are either too busy or just plain not interested. The other thing that pisses me off about this is the fact that I'm a nice guy and I can't get anyone. Yet other guys like my friend who can act like such an ahole can get someone on the first try and he's never tried before in his life. It's like a parallel universe. It makes no sense.
By Findlay	2007-12-03 13:54:19
Y am i such a washout? every i ask out always rejects me but everyone with a voiced opinion says i'm y. why can't i get s?
By Jack	2007-09-02 21:34:27
This section is so-so. The "talk to girls" section is a little more practical, despite the fact that some of the situations wont apply to you.

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