THE ONE SMALL FACT THAT WILL BOOST YOUR SUCCESS RATE TEN TIMES !!

The first thing to remember is that girls just aren't the same as men ! OK, so you knew that . But what you probably don't know and what you've probably never even thought about is just HOW DIFFERENT THEY ARE .

For most men a dream date is a girl with stunning looks, a fantastic figure and who'll be eager to give him as much mind - blowing sex as he could handle. If she's got a nice personality that's a bonus , but it's not the main thing. Am I right ?

For most girls, this is COMPLETELY & UTTERLY DIFFERENT . Her dream date is a man who will compliment her, love her and make her feel secure. Sounds old-fashioned ?-but it's TRUE. Of course girls do think about looks and sex, but they are MUCH MUCH further down their list of priorities than they are for men. She'd much rather have a man who is nice to be with and loving than one who is aggressive and cold , no matter how good looking he is.

Now be warned . This is where most men slip up. SO NEVER EVER FORGET THIS -- On first approach a straightforward suggestion of sex leaves the vast majority of girls stone cold. This also applies to things non-verbal. First impressions are vital and if the first thing you do is mention sex, touch her , or get caught looking down her cleavage then she will conclude that you are not for her . REMEMBER - it's what she is looking for that MATTERS TO HER. Go in like a sex-starved rottweiler with your tongue hanging out and sex on your mind and you are almost certain to be rejected . On the contrary if her first impression of you is someone that is likely to offer her love and affection and care she'll be very interested indeed .

So the most important secret of success with girls is to GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS not what you think she wants !!

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Special thanks to Kevin Gaynor for his valuable contribution

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