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Why Lose Weight ?



Do you look in the mirror and you just don't like what you see? An inflatable tube has taken up residence on your waist, and your butt seems to have dropped a couple of inches. 

You take a look at your face and you start to see the development of a little bit of waddle underneath the chin.

What do you do? Why is this happening? Better yet, what is happening to my body when I gain weight? 

These are all fantastic questions that are going to be answered this section on how to lose weight, and keep it off.

Many people ogle the beautiful bodies on the beach - men and women alike. Nice, tight round bottoms, flat stomachs and well toned bodies. I'll be honest, there are some who don't need to do a darn thing and they stay in relatively good shape, but for the vast majority of people need to take notice of what they eat, how much they eat, and how much daily exercise they are getting.

Why does our weight matter so much to us? 

Probably for two reason - physical appearance and health.

Physical Appearance

No one really wants to be fat. Plain and simple. For many people physical appearance is linked directly to their self-esteem. If they believe their body is undesirable to others, they can become depressed, or stressed and it causes serious emotional problems. 

It could end up as a emotional barrier that stop you from meeting people or finding a date !

Worse yet, in some, it can trigger the impulse to eat even more, making the problem worse.

The emotional side of being obese is only just being charted in the medical world. It is already understood that a person's self worth and self-confidence can be shattered if they gain excess weight. 

But the emotional toll it can take over an extended period of time might be considerably more damaging.

Here's a quick test to see if you have experienced some sort of emotional response to weight gain:

  • Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, "I am so ugly"?
  • Are you comfortable with the way you look when you look in the mirror?
  • Are you concerned with what your partner thinks of your body?
  • Are you conscious of other people looking at your when you go out, or are seen in public?



If you answered yes to any of those questions, it is obvious that your weight has some sort of emotional control over you. I don't think anyone wants his or her physical appearance to have that kind of control. 

So, as I see it, a person has two choices: 

Do something about it, or live with it - and the potential ongoing emotional turmoil.


Comment This Article Date

    By Katrina

2009-10-12 16:46:35

I like fit guys, but not body builder type guys.. yuk ! katrina.traviesa69@gmail.com oh and by the way guys, I am single !


    By ash

2008-09-08 16:05:17

Im fit and really dont have problems getting girls to look at me and smile and sometimes they start a converstation...you just need to deal with the situation and have CONFEIDENCE ( smile, keep them interested, just act cool, funny and a lil bit cocky) having a good looking body is worth it, and trust me . girls love to look at a hot body, and they want you to come and talk to them, but the problem with most of you that you dont understand girls..most of the time a girl will not try to pick you up, she will give you signs to come and talk to her ( body language) like smilling, looking at you every minute or so, playing with her hair, act just like how you act ( for example, if you are lookin at your watch, she will ook at her watch too) asking you questions, ex.what time is it..etc..thats what really happened , but im sure that most of you dont even dare to look into her eyes...so the next time you see a girl you like, smile, if she smiled back just say hi, sit straight if you are in a coffee shop or a book store, if she looked back at you , look at her ( with a smile) ..its ok to drop a cocky line like ( stop looking at me, I have feelings too) make sure you smile, so it wont feel awkward for her. speak slowely,introduce yourself and keep it small talk, tell her that you enjoyed the converstation and you would love to talk to her again , then ask her for her num. thats all it needs, if you have a fit body + confidence, you will get at least 7 phone numbers out of 10 girls you talk to. good luck!


    By Craig

2007-10-18 04:41:14

Just get up there fat or not and if your thoughts wonder say (SEX, SEX, SEX) over and over again till something pops into your head.


    By Wesley

2007-02-19 06:29:16

Looking good is only helpful at the beginning, after a while the novelty wears off and girls will see you for who you are, not what you look like. All you people need is confidence, don't let your looks get in the way, because then you lose to yourself


    By tony

2007-02-14 00:37:06

I;ve been working out for 7-8 years hardcore bench 315 for reps. I look like ure typical bodybuilder and still have no confidence when it comes to girls...So losing wieght and gettin in shape is only half the battle fellow gentlemen..


    By Tim

2007-02-11 10:25:44

Hello, my name is Timothy. I did the dumbest things in middle school that got me kind of a bad reputation with girls. Because of this girls see as kind of wierd and when ever I am talking to an attractive girl it is all I think about. I not athletic but I am physically fit. I bench 180 and have I semi- six pack and I am not fat, but my confidence is at an all time low. What should I do?


    By fatso

2007-01-28 20:48:48

Im fat and so are you guys ahahaha im so fat i like to eat food all the time cuz im a fat cow and ill never lose my virginity cuz my fat covers my penis


    By Jonathan

2007-01-06 09:57:31

Don't fret Andrew, it is very possible to lose weight. But the thing is, you should do it for you, for health, and for your appearance. Don't lose weight for some girl. Lose it for you. Not all females are as attracted to those "buffed up" types. Just stay relatively fit. You do not need six-pack abs, or the ability to run forty-seven miles without breaking a sweat. All the Best, Dr. Jonathan Daniels


    By andrew

2006-10-24 19:59:27

all ur saying is true but im not the onl one that kepps saying im fat everyone in high school makes fun of me and i love this girl ive had a crush on her for 2 years now and if u have any advise on this plz email me at atrin1993@hotmail.com


    By david

2006-10-18 12:04:14

i am a fat no-body, and reading this article has inspired me to get fit. cheers



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