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Why Lose Weight ?



Do you look in the mirror and you just don't like what you see? An inflatable tube has taken up residence on your waist, and your butt seems to have dropped a couple of inches. 

You take a look at your face and you start to see the development of a little bit of waddle underneath the chin.

What do you do? Why is this happening? Better yet, what is happening to my body when I gain weight? 

These are all fantastic questions that are going to be answered this section on how to lose weight, and keep it off.

Many people ogle the beautiful bodies on the beach - men and women alike. Nice, tight round bottoms, flat stomachs and well toned bodies. I'll be honest, there are some who don't need to do a darn thing and they stay in relatively good shape, but for the vast majority of people need to take notice of what they eat, how much they eat, and how much daily exercise they are getting.

Why does our weight matter so much to us? 

Probably for two reason - physical appearance and health.

Physical Appearance

No one really wants to be fat. Plain and simple. For many people physical appearance is linked directly to their self-esteem. If they believe their body is undesirable to others, they can become depressed, or stressed and it causes serious emotional problems. 

It could end up as a emotional barrier that stop you from meeting people or finding a date !

Worse yet, in some, it can trigger the impulse to eat even more, making the problem worse.

The emotional side of being obese is only just being charted in the medical world. It is already understood that a person's self worth and self-confidence can be shattered if they gain excess weight. 

But the emotional toll it can take over an extended period of time might be considerably more damaging.

Here's a quick test to see if you have experienced some sort of emotional response to weight gain:

  • Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, "I am so ugly"?
  • Are you comfortable with the way you look when you look in the mirror?
  • Are you concerned with what your partner thinks of your body?
  • Are you conscious of other people looking at your when you go out, or are seen in public?



If you answered yes to any of those questions, it is obvious that your weight has some sort of emotional control over you. I don't think anyone wants his or her physical appearance to have that kind of control. 

So, as I see it, a person has two choices: 

Do something about it, or live with it - and the potential ongoing emotional turmoil.


Comment This Article Date

    By Craig

2007-10-18 04:41:14

Just get up there fat or not and if your thoughts wonder say (SEX, SEX, SEX) over and over again till something pops into your head.


    By Wesley

2007-02-19 06:29:16

Looking good is only helpful at the beginning, after a while the novelty wears off and girls will see you for who you are, not what you look like. All you people need is confidence, don't let your looks get in the way, because then you lose to yourself


    By tony

2007-02-14 00:37:06

I;ve been working out for 7-8 years hardcore bench 315 for reps. I look like ure typical bodybuilder and still have no confidence when it comes to girls...So losing wieght and gettin in shape is only half the battle fellow gentlemen..


    By Tim

2007-02-11 10:25:44

Hello, my name is Timothy. I did the dumbest things in middle school that got me kind of a bad reputation with girls. Because of this girls see as kind of wierd and when ever I am talking to an attractive girl it is all I think about. I not athletic but I am physically fit. I bench 180 and have I semi- six pack and I am not fat, but my confidence is at an all time low. What should I do?


    By fatso

2007-01-28 20:48:48

Im fat and so are you guys ahahaha im so fat i like to eat food all the time cuz im a fat cow and ill never lose my virginity cuz my fat covers my penis


    By Jonathan

2007-01-06 09:57:31

Don't fret Andrew, it is very possible to lose weight. But the thing is, you should do it for you, for health, and for your appearance. Don't lose weight for some girl. Lose it for you. Not all females are as attracted to those "buffed up" types. Just stay relatively fit. You do not need six-pack abs, or the ability to run forty-seven miles without breaking a sweat. All the Best, Dr. Jonathan Daniels


    By andrew

2006-10-24 19:59:27

all ur saying is true but im not the onl one that kepps saying im fat everyone in high school makes fun of me and i love this girl ive had a crush on her for 2 years now and if u have any advise on this plz email me at atrin1993@hotmail.com


    By david

2006-10-18 12:04:14

i am a fat no-body, and reading this article has inspired me to get fit. cheers



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