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How to Be a Bad Boy That Women Love

Simple Facts About Women

Most women are just as nice and friendly as you and me, they are not mean to strangers and will NOT slap you or scream "Pervert" when you approach them.



Most women will simply say "no thanks" , "sorry, I'm not interested" or "I have a boyfriend" if they are not interested instead of kicking you in the groin.

There is no need to be scared of beautiful women, they are human just like you and me and interact with others on a daily basis.

Women like sex just as much as men do.

When a sexy girl is wearing revealing clothing, has her hair done and is looking as if she walked out of MAXIM… she knows she looks good, knows she is getting attention from nearly every man she passes and DOES NOT mind it.

Pretty girls are used to getting approached by men. While this may not help your chances too much, it does mean that when you approach her she will not be scared or offended by you (unless you say something stupid). So take your best shot, she won't go crazy and scream for help.

In many cases, the girl you approach can be just as shy and nervous as you… it's not just men who get overwhelming anxiety when talking to members of the opposite sex at a mall - girls get it too.

So now that you know some of these simple facts, I hope you realize that women are not some mystical creatures that behave unpredictably and are out to embarrass and brutally shut down every guy that approaches them.

Women are people, just like men are and the sooner you realize that the sooner you'll be able to approach a pretty girl walking down the street just as easy as you can ask another man what time it is.

Women are not giant 800 pound gorillas that can snap you in half like a match stick, in other words there is nothing to be afraid of.

 

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    By joey

2008-06-27 21:41:35

As I always say: If you're a camel then why not be an elephant for exactly 5 seconds??


    By gza

2008-06-26 23:49:54

The fact is girls already have a pussy, they don't need another one. None of you are able to talk to girls, this is just evolution doing it's job weeding out the weak gene pools. If you want to survive you need to find your balls, man up, talk to those damn girls and not give a shit about what anyone thinks. It's a tough battle and I'm going through the same thing but you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it!


    By Matt

2008-05-23 20:36:54

I met a girl last night and we talked about politics ffs. There is someone for everyone.


    By lee

2008-05-07 11:32:15

I have this same problem of hesitating with girls.I really like this girl in my uni, i have talked to her once and her response was ok, we chatted 2-3 minutes.But now i feel really shy talking to her. I fear that now she will know that i am hitting on her. What to talk next with her, confused.


    By paul

2008-03-24 23:23:17

if a girl kisses you gives a nice smile and tells u i had a great time and had been long time since she enjoyed day like that and three days later tells you i dont want a relatioship with u and says she got no excuses y she dont want what that means


    By girl

2008-03-15 20:21:13

Guys, just do it. Suck it up and go talk to that girl you have your eye on. That "I'm shy" is crap. It is better to make the move and know for sure than to sit there and torture yourself wondering. Girls will only wait for so long and then they will decide you don't really like them because you never did or said anything and they will eliminate you in their mind as a possible dating prospect. It is better for you to make a move before the girl does that. You gain confidence by taking risks.


    By john

2008-03-11 19:55:51

i am gay so how do i approach men?


    By Ivan Andres

2007-11-06 00:20:52

Hey dudes, i have read all your coments about girls, i used to be a shy person until I overcame it when i went to my university that im attending right now. I can say that the only way is by talking to the girls, if your getting to know this person for the first time just start by introducing yourself, girls are no different from boys, they think alike. after uv become friends the dating could start as friends as first and then if you find things in common then continue foward. What do you have to loose, if the girl says no its because shes not interested but you could still now her as a friend. The most important thing in dating is always bee your self, tell her that she looks very pritty, and also tell her what are the things that you like about her. Also be a gentemen, be Funny. Most of the girls dont talk to them selves so you better LISTEN to her, and reply with your own opinion. As for me i really like this girl and even though im not the type of person that is very humerous and can make her laugh i can still communicate. I now that she likes me but she hangs around with people who make her laugh, i dont mind it but i still fight for what i think is right! im learning how to be funny so if anybody has a tip of how to be more funny please tell me. im taking all the courage to ask her out this weekend. :) And hope this helps a little.


    By chad

2007-11-05 19:44:39

how long do i have to be friends be for i ask her to be my girl friends.


    By Tom

2007-09-26 19:43:25

well i have this problem. I really like this girl at school and I think she somewhat likes me. Well the problem is that I see her looking at me, but I'm too scared to look back. she may think that i don't like her because I'm usually really calm looking while in reality I'm freezing up. Well some ppl sees me as a loser and this girl she's like really popular . well every time when i try to make a move her friends would always hang around her or a male friend that may look like her bf. and every time I see her with a male friend i would think that I'm such an idiot for trying. now heres the weird part every time i give up trying to get her attention she gets mine and its very annoying for me because of the shyness i have so i never have the courage to tell her. well after all these years i feel like shes starting to ignore which is very normal. And i would blame myself for not taking the chance. even till this day she still looks back but not as much. And those eyes i first saw, was nothing more than just a memory.I feel like an idiot It all seems so close but i feel very distant from her.


    By baz

2007-09-26 13:59:34

theres a girl i really liked very much.Ive never liked any other girl this much. ive a grt crush on her. im way to shy to try to talk to her. i wish i could but i lack confidence. im not one to start conversations either. but i talk well with boys. moreover i am a entertainer among boys but when it comes to girls i feel shy and cudnt do anything. and i wish i could come out of my shell and be able to talk to her. but i procrastinate alot aswell and i figure if not today then maybe some other time.sometimes we will lock eyes for a second and i feel great like she knows i exist and i like to think that maybe she likes me a little though just waiting for me to say something. but im not sure what to do. im afraid if i dont ever say something then ill miss my chance. im afraid i may never find another girl like her. when i think about her i try to think up what i would say and it sounds great but when i actualy am in a situation to were i could say something i cant think of anything. i think i might be crazy im not sure. maybe im thinking to much and making it harder then it should be. im not good with words and even now i feel embarassed to post this comment.


    By na

2007-09-07 20:10:03

i know this girl from school and i just cant talk to her i just dont know what to say im usaly fine talking to girls i mean i talk to her best friend everyday but i just freeze up around her and now my friend likes her what should i do ???????????????


    By dan

2007-09-02 08:53:50

if your having trouble talking to girls that you find attractive, than id think a good idea is to work on girls you dont find that attractive so that dating becomes more of an instinct


    By KEVIN MAXIMUS

2007-08-13 16:06:09

I feel almost exactly like BRANDON describes above. I feel like a nervous wreck around MIchaelena, a pretty girl. And she makes me wanna give an image of a Bad boy while I am not. I am funny given that, but I feel I come out as such a good tissues goy. It sucks, and Yeah I feel sorry for ERIC-- DO not give up on love or dating. They are complicated with INCOMPATIBLE SOCIAL STRUCTURES, but once you date one all your dignity is restored, and believe in mankind. I just feel horrible I cant ask her out. I will do it tomorrow, hope she says yes. If she says no, then I will not be dying inside as I am right now. WHOOOF.


    By jason

2007-08-10 07:47:05

when ever im talkin with my mates and a girl approches i just shutup and dont say anything untill she leaves what can i do to build up my confidence to make convo's with women.


    By Marcus Lavender

2007-08-09 16:31:19

Please help me there is girl i like named Tamaya Lowe but she doesnt seem to like me.


    By Chad

2007-07-24 21:37:50

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    By ozzy

2007-07-21 13:33:43

hi, i not consıdered as ugly but im not good looking eaıther and i need confidence before i start talking to girls ı dont know can you gıve me tips?


    By James

2007-06-20 00:57:02

I am in college and I see this girl in my english class. and I just get a feeling about her that I shoud talk to her what can I do to talk to her with out bugging her while she is studing?


    By tim

2007-06-19 09:35:25

i have my first date on friday but im really nerves and shy can you give me some advice before i go?


    By ERIC

2007-06-16 19:03:31

ABOUT FIVE WEEKS AGO I GRADUATED FROM HIGH SCHOOL. I AM HAPPY THAT I GRADUATED BUT IAM SAD THAT I MISSED OUT ON DATING. I AM TOO SHY TO TALK TO GIRLS EVEN IF I TRIED TO THEY'D JUST BLOW ME OFF ANYWAY IHAVE NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND OR EVEN A FRIEND WHO IS GIRL FOR THAT MATTER. I DONT THINK THAT I WILL EVER KNOW WHAT IT'LL BE LIKE TO HAVE A GIRL FRIEND BECAUSE GIRLS ARE STUCK UP AND HAVE INCOMPATIBLE SOCIAL STRUCTURES. GUYS, DONT END UP LIKE ME, BE ASSERTIVE WHILE YOU CAN


    By jony

2007-06-07 16:22:59

okay i like this girl and she is so pretty many guys like her i have gone out once or twice just for coffee but the thing is i'm scared what if she doesnt like me you know?


    By brandon

2007-06-03 18:07:51

I like this one girl a lot. I went over to her house for the first time with my friend and im not shy when im around hot women im only shy when i like a girl and for some reason i never want her to find out because im scared of being rejected and being made fun of. I hung out with her all weekend and she seemed like she liked me and the next day at school when i saw her in the hall she smiled and said hi, but now that i like her im this nervous wreck taht cant say anything. I cant stop thinking about her and if i let go of this oppurtunity i dont think i will ever get over my fear.


    By bad

2007-05-22 17:08:59

i really like this girl and she is really hot but she is really popular and i am really shy so i dont want people to know that i asked her if she says no so i need you help cuz im runing out of time to ask her


    By Alex

2007-05-22 15:44:15

theres a girl i really like. ive never liked any other girl this much. ive had crushes before but with this girl i feel like she is the only one for me. im way to shy to try to talk to her. i wish i could but i lack confidence. im not one to start conversations either. im always quiet. and i wish i could come out of my shell and be able to talk to her. but i procrastinate alot aswell and i figure if not today then maybe some other time.sometimes we will lock eyes for a second and i feel great like she knows i exist and i like to think that maybe she likes me a little though just waiting for me to say something. but im not sure what to do. im afraid if i dont ever say something then ill miss my chance. im afraid i may never find another girl like her. when i think about her i try to think up what i would say and it sounds great but when i actualy am in a situation to were i could say something i cant think of anything. i think i might be crazy im not sure. maybe im thinking to much and making it harder then it should be. im not good with words and even now i feel embarassed to post this comment because im not sure if ive said something that sounds stupid. ohwell >.<"


    By open

2007-05-09 11:12:26

i tend to think girls give us tough time as well.i have come to really like this first year girl and she sound like my soulmate but she is too friendly and i get the feeling that what i interpreted as signs may be nothing indeed.if only you guys could c how our hearts melt sumtimes


    By Kevin

2007-03-10 22:46:46

Im a shy guy and the girl i like is shy too. its been like 5 months and ive actually gotten on a friend-to-friend relationship w/ her. i guess it took so long getting from not knowing each other at all. some relationships just take a lot of time to get off the ground. if u really like a certain girl and u are willingly to wait then take ur time. not missing out on opportune moments is important. btw how would u kno when a girl wants u to ask her out?


    By caity

2007-02-10 17:45:47

ok well words from the pouty lips of a pretty girl on the other end of this situation... i am having issues with a guy who is shy and won't come up to me or talk to me... some girls like myself are still old fashioned in the sense that YOU, the guy, must initate the first date/ first concrete move. We egg you on and manipulate action but it is really aggravating to wait for you to follow through... some girls find shyness a turn on... over bearing arrogance is not really the way to go... we find shyness sweeter a lot of the time and it gets us interested... but there is a time when you have to take a risk and make your mark... life is not a hollywood production and most of us, if you dont do in a swaggering annoying manner, will not pull a scene if you do ever approach us.


    By des

2007-02-06 13:18:34

i really dont know how to approach girls, ifact i dont know exactly what to say in the first place.


    By lipak

2007-02-04 12:19:32

I was in university one day and the fire alarm went off. i saw this really beautiful girl standing outside alone. i she caught my eye and i really wanted to go and talk to her but i was way to shy to do it and I regret this now as i may not see her again


    By Ellis

2007-01-26 22:37:33

OK there is this girl i really like but i have a hard time talkin to cuz i dont no what to say. Please help me out.


    By Erik

2007-01-23 16:20:54

ok so i like this girl a lot and we are pretty good friends and before i liked her we talked a lot but then when i started to like her i couldnt talk to her as easy and she started to not talk to me as much to and now she like never even talks to me and i feel to shy to just go up and talk to her again cause i feel like i dont no her and like we used to always wave at each other in the hall and stuff but now she pays more attention to one of my friends that is like super shy and idk what to do about it


    By bri bri

2007-01-21 20:03:04

well theres this one girl i really like and people say i can get her and all i hav to do is improve my game..cuz i dnt rly talk because i dont kno what to talk aboutt...im running out of topicss....help me come up with some topics pls...it would be very helpful


    By grl

2007-01-08 17:48:22

yea... the thing with pretty girls. everyone tells me i'm pretty but no guys ask ME out... they say it has something to do with shyness, and i don't think so cus i talk to all my guy friends, and i have as many guy friends as grl friends, and the only one i DON'T talk to is the guy i like cus i'm too nervous... so yea guys being shy? mmm.... no. don't do that it's really better if ur outgoing but too outgoing and drawling every wrd you say to a grl is sexually abusive in a way. don't do that either. treat them like ur guyfriends. mayb the reason i have so many guy friends is cus i'm a tomboy, but then again..... >< YEA CONFIDENCE IS GOOD FOR GUYS!


    By carlos

2006-12-01 02:51:10

i like this 1 girl alot and i have kissed her b4 woohoo for me lol..well the thing is i want to go@ with her but i never have time with her,i only call her like 3times a week cus if i call her more then that i feel like im bugging her..ohh and she never calls me im the one that calls..how can i make her call me and want me as much as i want her??


    By sony

2006-11-17 03:11:44

oh all guys think think that girls think cheap abt guys if they ask ...thats the main reason also inferiority complex plays a main role.


    By me

2006-11-01 16:27:15

you can loose your dignity and reputation, if rejected...but as you said it's worth the risk


    By ally

2006-10-30 21:47:09

my friends boyfrined is shy and she kinda hates it .she always telling him just to go up to her and hug her but he says hes afraid that her friends hate him and he will embarass her.if any guy out there is like this and reading this i just want to tell u this go for it she wont hate u for trying she wont slap you .Shell thank you for trying.you have very little to loose by trying so go for it .if you are asking a girl out dont be afraid of rejection.there are lots of girls out there.go out there and be brave guys !


    By G

2006-10-03 14:43:53

With my past experiences, I have found that first approaching a woman can be difficult. But at the same time, approaching them can also be the best thing you do. The truth is, even though extremely beautiful women are stared at, because man get so intimidated by their physical beauty, very few actually approach them. I know some hot women who haven't been on dates in months, because men are simply to scared and intimidate to even attempt to try and build attraction-ask her out. Because these extremely hot women are rarely approached, when you approach them, your ahead of 99% of men. Also, approaching women oftens shows the girl that you do have confidence, which women will admire. So my advice to you is sometimes, JUST GO FOR IT. After all, what do you have to loose?



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