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How Do I Handle It When A Girl Does Not Show Up On A Date ?
First, you wait only fifteen minutes for her
to arrive. If you are still there when she arrives twenty,
thirty, or forty minutes later, all you are doing is showing
her that you are a worm who will still be there for her, no
matter how
she treats you. If she shows up thirty
minutes late and you are gone, it shows her that
she has to treat your time as respectfully as she'd like her
own
treated.
If a woman isn't there by fifteen minutes after you've scheduled the date, there
is only a small chance she will show up anyhow.
Sometimes when a woman is running late, or can't make it, she'll
call your answering machine or voice mail to let you know.
After waiting fifteen minutes, check your machine. If there's
no message from her, leave. If you don't have an answering
machine you can check remotely, you should get one if you are
going to date a lot of women. It will save you a lot of
wondering time.
If she's running late and tells you, it is permissible to wait,
but you should still cut the date off quickly. For instance,
if your date is scheduled for noon, and at 12:15 you receive a
message that she'll be a few minutes late, and she finally
arrives at 12:35, it is critical that you still leave the date
at a time you would have if she hadn't been late. At five to
one you would warn her, "Boy, it's fun to be with you, but I
have to go in a few minutes." Hopefully the shortness of the
date will inspire her to be more punctual next time. If you
stay extra-long, and rearrange your day to accommodate her
lateness, there's no reason for her to change her behavior, and
she will continue to be late in the future. This will result
in a pattern of inconvenience for and reinforce her to take
advantage of you.
If a woman stands you up, your call the next day is where you
turn the entire humiliating experience around. Usually, we
don't advocate being dishonest with women in any way. But when
she stands you up, in our opinion she needs some correction.
Here's how you do it.
Don't call her the day she missed the date. This is for two
reasons.
One, calling her that same day makes you look more desperate than
you are. You want her to understand that you have a busy life,
and her missing the appointment didn't throw you into a tizzy.
Two, she might call you and apologize, though in our
experience and the experience of our students, this has never
happened.
Call her the next day, and apologize for missing the date.
Even though you were there, you say "I'm so sorry I missed
our date yesterday. Things just got wild at work, and I just spaced
it out. I really apologize. I hope you'll let me take you out again,
and make it up to you." At this point, she has two
choices. One, she can say, "Oh, that's okay, I didn't show up
either," which shows that she is at least honest.
Two, she can lie, and say, "Yea, I waited twenty minutes, and you
never came!"
Either way, your response is the same. You do not call her on her
lie--remember, your purpose is to seduce her, not to be right. (You
do notice, however, that she is a woman who both didn't show up and
lied to you about it, which are neither good signs.) What you do is
you say, "I'm so sorry. I promise I'll make it up to you on our next
date." You can then either push the program and ask her out to a
more romantic date, or bring her flowers on the next priming date
and more thoroughly seal your romantic interest. Set up another date
and, in the guise of "making it up to her," keep the seduction
moving forward.
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