What are your thoughts on approaching GROUPS of women? It seems to me like whenever I see an attractive girl, she’s always in a group with like seven of her friends.

The only reasons I can see for approaching a group of eight or more girls are:

You have a bunch of friends, and you’re trying to hook them all up.

You really like challenges and entertaining people.

I know someone who loves to approach groups of people, and he’s great at it. He uses a combination of magic, humor and other great techniques to charm everyone, and then leaves with the girl of his choice.

But as far as I’m concerned, it’s not the group you’re after most of the time… it’s one woman in the group… so stop with the “GROUP-THINK.”

OK, eight women walk into a club together (sounds like the beginning of a good joke). What happens over the next two hours?

Well, some of them peel off and dance, some go to the bar for a drink, some go to the ladies’ room to powder their noses…

There are all kinds of opportunities to meet women when they’re not in the group of eight. And I’ll tell you what: If she is standing at the bar with her seven friends and you start talking to her, the other seven will go about their business and not care.

Just go get her e-mail address. That’s all you need.

It’s the same old thing: I meet a girl I like, I think she really likes me, then I turn into a Wuss. Result: I never hear from her again. Help.

Why is it that so many guys act like WUSSIES around women?

Well, there are a lot of reasons.

For some guys, it’s an AUTOMATIC PROGRAMMED response.

See cute girl; act like Wussbag.

A lot of guys have learned that being “nice” to people makes them “like” you.

Unfortunately, no one has ever told most of us guys that making a woman LIKE you isn’t very important.

Making a woman feel ATTRACTION for you IS.

Evicting the “Inner Wussy” isn’t always easy for guys.

Some of us LOVE our Inner Wuss. We’re proud of how sweet, thoughtful, loving, and clingy we are.

Most guys think of their Inner Wuss in a POSITIVE LIGHT.

We humans don’t like to admit that what we’ve been doing for most of our lives was WRONG. That’s another reason.

It takes a lot for most guys to SEE WITH THEIR OWN TWO EYES how NOT being a Wuss affects women… and how it makes women RESPOND differently.

Once you realize how your Inner Wussy is making women RUN away from you, it gets easier to EVICT it.

How Do You Approach Women With Headphones On Without Being Annoying?

I love this kind of thing.

You could have asked me anything you wanted. You could have asked how to get phone numbers from exotic dancers… or where to hang out in order to meet supermodels.

But noooooooooo.

No way.

You want to know how to approach women with headphones on… without being ANNOYING.

You know, you didn’t really explain whether YOU were the one wearing the headphones or SHE was the one wearing them.

Here, try this:

Put on your headphones, and turn up your Duran Duran cassette all the way. (By the way, this will work best for you if you’re wearing the type of headphones that completely cover your ears, so you cannot hear what is happening outside… and you have one of those old large YELLOW “Sports Walkmans” that you can proudly wear and display on your belt… right next to your light-brown fake leather fanny pack.)

Approach a cute girl, and start a conversation.

Yell: “I’m listening to Duran Duran… does this annoy you?”

If she says “no” (you’ll be able to tell the difference between “no” and “yes” by reading her lips), then you’ve successfully found a way to approach a woman… WITH HEADPHONES ON… without being annoying.

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