Dating Process

Rules to decide where to go for first date

Pick an activity that you enjoy
A first date should be something that you like to do. Do not pick something you hate just because you think your partner will enjoy it.

Pick an activity that you can easily afford
Don't try to snow somebody on the first date by spending gobs of money. The dangers of throwing money around are that it makes you look cheap later, when you scale back your spending to accomodate your budget, and you never know whether your date likes you or your wallet.

Do something that doesn't require new clothes 
New clothes are often uncomfortables and tend to bunch, rip, catch, and get spilled on. Why worry about clothes when there are more important things to worry about it. Wear your happy, easy-to-wear good luck clothes.

Do Something That Isn't Competitive 
Avoid arm wrestling on the first date. Although some relationships thrive on tension, it's hard to put competitive feelings in a context when you don't know each other. Even if you're not competing with each other, how you deal with someone trying to beat you while the date you're trying to impress is watching gets pretty dicey. And beating someone on a first date means that one of you feels like a winner and one like a loser. Not a cool idea.

Pick An Activity That Doesn't Involve A Lot Of Alcohol 
You might say the wrong think if consume too much of alcohol.

Leave Time to Get to Know Each Other 
A date that is chock full of activity keeps you busy, but if the purpose is a chance to get to know one another, some quiet time is a great idea. Without a bunch of distracting noise, activity, or an audience, you can talk to and get a sense of one another.

"Picking up woman is so easy",  Wayne Ross