Overcome your shyness
How can I hide my nervousness around a woman ?
What makes you nervous is taking yourself too
seriously and thinking too much about what she thinks (or will
think) of you.
Shyness can't be fixed or hidden - you simply have to disregard
the negative thoughts your mind is telling you.
Approaching women quickly, more often, and without thinking about
what you're going to say first will strengthen your resolve over
time and diminish those types of thoughts running through your mind.
Never approach a woman thinking "I must absolutely make a good
first impression or she'll never..." Instead think, "I wonder what
she'll do when I tell her X, Y , or Z" and don't worry so much that
she might not respond the way you want - most women won't.
At least not until you've gained rapport and a chance to lead the
conversation (and her) in the direction you want to go.
Source : Newsgroup at alt.seduction.fast ASF Faq
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