I’ve got to tell you that the information in your newsletters are great. My success has sky rocketed. I just started college not to long ago and because of the information in the news letters alone I haven’t found a women who has turned me down with getting her email or phone number so far.
When I walk down the halls I notice that more and more women smile and notice me and im able to get email’s or phone numbers with ease.
With my newfound success I have a minor flaw you might be able to fix.
You see, as I said before I get a girls email with ease, but writing an effective email is a different story.
In a past news letter I remember you saying that you should keep the first email short. I think my problem is I tend to try a little too much to make something reply worthy. This may be why I’m not getting as much replies from the emails I sent as I would like.
I sent [an] email out on friday and I still haven’t gotten a reply. Oh well, I’ll see her in class again in a few days.
Could you give me a good example of what a first time email should be like? I”d like some basic rules I can go by so my email success could be a little better then I can break the ice better and start getting more dates.
Here are a couple of rules to the first email:
- Be SHORT (no more than a couple sentences)
- Be VERY short – (I really mean this one.)
- Be FUNNY (give her a little chuckle, but don’t try too hard.)
When I say short, I mean SHORT. Keep it to just a short sentence or two. Guys who are in demand don’t have time to write long emails. And for every sentence over two or three, she’s wondering why you’re spending so much time on this girl you hardly even know. It’s a bit creepy.
Be funny, because you want to revive that sense of fun that you two had together when you met, and you want her to remember it enough to want more.
And lastly, always ask a question that she will HAVE to answer. Something that she won’t be able to RESIST answering ….
“I have a guy that is interested in taking you out to tea this week. Give me a call and I’ll tell you about him…” (And then when she calls, tell her it’s you…)
“You know, I think you might have dropped something when we were talking… give me a call…” (And then when she calls, tell her she dropped a hint that she wanted to talk to you again…)
“I just talked to someone who knows you… You better call me about this – what he said is really unbelievable…” (And then when she calls, you tease her FOREVER about it. Make her REALLY wonder. And the only way you will tell her is if she meets you at the coffee place on Wednesday…)
Yeah, it’s tricky. But hey, whatever gets results, guys.
RESULTS !!!
Carlos Xuma
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