In this issue, I will talk about “Favor Opener”.
This method is very simple and easy to use when you want to approach girls. What you need to do is to ask the girl to do something for you and you will use it as an ice breaker to start a conversation.
Make sure the favor is do-able.
Last night I went clubbing with a friend in a local bar.
Here is what he did.
He moved close to the girl he wanted to talk and start a conversation by asking the girl to help him get a straw. Make sure that the straw is reachable. Otherwise you will be acting silly.
Normally in this situation, the “defense system” for the girl is weak. Most of the time the girl will help you out and pass you the straw.
After that, say thanks and you can start some small talk to get her interest. Try to keep the initial conversation short and interesting.
Conversation topics like the followings are easy to use :
- Can I buy you another drink ?
- Where to buy the cute ring ?
- Your clothing looks unique, and is it limited edition ?
BUT they are too common. I don’t use them.
Let me show you another way to make the girl laugh and think you are different from the rest.
Ask the girl do you know it is very easy to get a free drinks in any bar ?
This question will definitely raise her curiosity and she will ask how to do it.
I “borrow” this pub tricks from this website :
http://773bartend.com/tricks.html
| Bar Trick #5: The Fifty Cent Drink Ingredients:
1 Victim with a fresh drink, 1 cocktail napkin, 2 quarters. Objective: To get a cheap drink. Situation: Take victims drink and remove any straws or umbrellas. Cover victims drink with the cocktail napkin. Tell your victim, “I bet you fifty cents that without touching the glass or the napkin or any straws, etc., I can drink that entire drink.” Push the two quarters towards the victim while betting, point to the glass and the napkin. Continue to say, “I won’t touch anything!” Bring up the point about possibly putting a straw through the napkin and say again, “I won’t touch anything!” Solution: When they give up, slowly take off the napkin and enjoy the drink as you push the fifty cents to the victim. Be sure to tell the victim they won and give them their fifty cents. The $4.00 drink just cost you fifty cents! Enjoy your cheap drink ! |
This method is sneaky isn’t it ?
So, after reading my “Favor Opener” do you think it is hard to approach girls ?
I hope not.
After I send out the newsletter, a subscriber told me that he could have been beaten up by a guy if he uses this technique on them.
He raised a good point.
To clarify … I am just sharing “The Fifty Cent Drink” trick with the girl and I am not doing it practically on anyone. Frankly, I don’t really mind buying the girl a drink which could possibly lead to more and more conversations later on. BUT that depends on the situation. Just react accordingly.
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