Why Women Fall In Love With Older Man

    By annymous

2011-12-10 22:36:39

i just read all of u r life stories and will say all of u that u all are lucky,i fall in love with her when she is 20 and i am 25 we loved so truely to each other and got married also,we stayed only 6-7 months together,then she left me bcoz i kept my brother with me to help him in his career.many arguments happen,fight happen,but for that is it right she will leave me simply and go,i don't know here wat is the meaning of true love here,now i am 31 and completely alone,i am missing her always,wish she would come back to me oneday

    By annymous

2011-12-10 22:35:50

i just read all of u r life stories and will say all of u that u all are lucky,i fall in love with her when she is 20 and i am 25 we loved so truely to each other and got married also,we stayed only 6-7 months together,then she left me bcoz i kept my brother with me to help him in his career.many arguments happen,fight happen,but for that is it right she will leave me simply and go,i don't know here wat is the meaning of true love here,now i am 31 and completely alone,i am missing her always,wish she would come back to me oneday

    By D

2011-12-06 20:36:36

Once your over 40 noone cares I'm 46 and my bf is 67 That's 21 years But if I was 26 and he was 47 Or 16 and 37 it would be frowned upon Age is a number The sad thing is the likely hood of having him for less time I adore him

    By js

2011-12-01 13:44:28

my story is difrent i am cosin there is a man who is in love with me but iam older then him about 23 years old he says that he loves me but i dont think so .

    By sara

2011-12-01 13:09:34

i am 16 years old and i am in love with 41 year old man but idk if it is possible to live togather cuz he is divorced and he have 7 year son but i am not sure about my fellings idk . :( maybe i need a father fellings or i didnt find confdens so i take it from him help me .

    By really lost

2011-11-27 11:38:21

Hi all~ it is a release that i am not alone in this~ i've been read most of you guys' posts...and i did find that mine is really the same as Crazy's. seems like we've been in the exactly the same situation. i am 26, and he is 20 years older then me. and we are also long distance love...and i do not care what the other people would see me, but there is really one thing that makes me lost...it is my family~ i love my family and also i love him...i do not want to lose any of them in my life...but for my family, it seems like it would never be a thing that can be discussed. either i choose him or my family, there is no way in between...i am really lost...i just simply want to live a life the way i want, and want the people around me to be happy...but now...standing in the middle of this thing...have to make a decision between the people i deeply loved...what should i do...i really need help...and i am really lost....please...i need your help

    By Naji

2011-11-25 09:08:52

Hi, I am a 44 y/o single male. I like a female shop assistant who is in her early twenties. I go to that supermarket only to see her. She gave me lots of sings which shows that she likes me, I try not to talk to her because my conscious refuse it. I have been in this situation for 2 years, and yet she still gives me the same sings. I honestly like her, but my conscious says ‘No’. I don’t know what to do. Can you help me?

    By Redrose

2011-10-26 10:35:35

Hi to all of you! Well, after reading all your wonderful comments, I would like to share my "love story" too. It is all began a couple of years ago. I'm a 20 yrs old girl (now) and I have a relationship with a 53 yrs old man. It happened from a game, we live at the same house. At the beggining I didn't pay much attention to him.. I was young with free spirit. But the game goes on for days, months, then years. I realized that slowly2 we start loving eachother!! Btw.. I never hanging around with guys of my age..most of them are so immature!! Anyway.. It's a beautiful sensation loving and to be loved by someone that really care about you.. I feel so secure and satisfied when I'm with him. I think that when there is TRUE LOVE..no matter the gap of our age, the colour of skin, and what religion we are practising. I'm happy, proud and so IN LOVE with him!! Our problem is: he still married and he's got a beautiful child... but I believe in our love!!

    By Sweetie

2011-10-08 17:47:43

Hi Nanette i feel you. i am 43 and he will be 48. (5 yrs)older than i am. But that doesnt matter to me. He is so wonderful to me. He is attentive, caring, kind, respectful, thoughtful, and makes me feel im the only woman in his life. But there is a twist. We met while i was going through a divorce from a 21 year marriage and he had just came out of a 3 1/2 year relationship. He still has contact with his ex but he says its strickly platonic. Im trusting in him that he is being truthful with me because i cant afford to go through hurt again. I thought i would never find happiness again until he came along. His ex is older than him and he said they are only friends. She wants him back but he says he is in love with me. he spends all his time with me when he not working. i told him she is being very disrespectful by calling him all through the day and nite knowing he has a girlfriend. what should i do?

    By Robin

2011-09-18 09:05:02

Hi, I'm a 24 yr old woman, "single Mom of one" inlove with a 41 yr old man, I am going through a Divorce, and yes that might sound crazy, but I was not inlove with my Husband, we rushed into it for other reasons.(Real Dumb I know!) When I was falling apart I met this guy on this Partyline, partylines are awful and I was shocked to have bumped into him, We talked for a Month and I was starting to look forward to our convos. When he tells him he has a Girlfriend and hes Blind. I was really surprised, but not upset, cause i was looking only for friendship. His girlfriend and him are long distance and she hardly checks in on him, but he defends her actions. Since I've been going through this divorce I've had to go through so much, since my exhusband was abusive. I consider this Guy my BESTfriend, Hes always there for me whenever I need him, he'll buy something for me if I can't buy it myself at that moment, hes the only one who gets me and sees me clearly more then I do myself. We'd have phonesex all the time, and flirt, and it was amazing, even if it was over the phone. He always made me laugh and I him, I feel like we understood eachother and we never got bored with one another. Now its been 10 months since we've been talking and his girlfriend is coming up for a two month visit he is pushing me away, and it hurts so bad I cry all the time and I am barely making it on the inside, I miss him and his voice and his laugh, I wish he felt the same, he sends me mixed sigals all the time, its like he really likes me too, but hes so old fashion he believes our relationship would never workout and hes comfortable with his girlfriend of 8 yrs. He says he has strong feelings for me but he has someone, he loves her and he can't just drop her for me. I feel like I'm being used and I want to be near him cause he makes me feel amazing and happy but my heart breaks cause of all of this, It hurts to be near him, I've told him so many times That Even though we've Never met, that I would want to be with him, he makes me feel alive. So I emailed him (p.s. He has Jaws, its a program that lets the computer speak to you) I told him that I deleted his email, and phone number, that I will no longer talk to him and that I was thankful for him being a great friend, and to wish him the best. He responded in a email that said, "where the fuck does that come from? Stop with the pity party, just cause I am busy... Fine if you want to run, go ahead" Something like that, and I haven't responded, I secretly hope and pray he emails me back and says something, that lets me know how he feels. but I don't think he realizes the reason I'm not speaking to him is because of my feelings for him, What should I do? any Comments will help, Thankyou! =(

    By xoxo

2011-09-16 09:28:38

thanks God Im not alone in this world

    By crazy

2011-09-16 03:42:47

Hi, i am a 25 year old girl, and i fall in love with a man who is 20 years older then me. We've been together for almost 3 years, and he had a kid about my age, and well he is grandpa a year ago~ I am just insanely in love with this man, i do not know if you guys have any problems with telling you parents or if they agreed with you guys to be together...i am afraid of losing my family..but i also wanted to be with him for the rest of my life~ we make each other happy, we had a good time every time i visit him or he visit me, we are kinda of a long distant love...but it does not bother me at all~ can someone tell me what should i do? i need help...and it is good to know that i am not alone doing this~ and wish all of us having a good life~ all the best~

    By mikta

2011-09-13 12:32:32

hi am 36 yr old female and i am seeing a man in 50.he is amazing better than any guy i have had long relationships with........there no pressure we can cuddly.we are open...i hope that it will progress into the future he has kids off hand but i would love one baby with him,,all the best to you all

    By David

2011-09-07 15:41:15

Im in love with a 23 year women I’m 52 .. I don’t care..!! we get along great and see eye to eye with her, more so then a women my age..

    By Celestina

2011-09-07 13:48:12

I must be thought as a freak and a fool for the simple fact I share the same experience with most of the women on this site. I've been told that young women are naive and foolish while older men only want them for the sex. I don't know what to believe for that matter. Age is a number in my opinion, along with race is just a color and looks will fade. I'm in love with a man in a dire situation. Im 18 going onto 19 and he just turned 49. 30 years was a lot to take in especially for the fact he is older than my father. I'm not sure how to take it. But that is just the beginning. He does have children, they are about 3 and 5 years of age. He is married, but his wife is an illegal and has cheated on him. She threw him on the street because he wanted to see his children. He only wanted to hold her and love her like a normal wife and family. But she took him to court for stalking charges and claimed he wanted to see the children only to see her. He went to jail for five months and faces a possible two years in it.He never beat his children or his wife. He only wanted to hold her at night and be romantic with her. He wanted to raise his children and give them the best that they could want, but that was too much and a crime in itself according to her. Him and I met when I was going to work. We met eachother at a bus station. He asked to borrow my phone to call someone and we decided to just chat as I waited for my bus. He got close, but I was scared at first. But God helped us, he's catholic and I'm non-denom. We've gotten closer and I helped him out in any way I could. I fed him, got him a phone, and gave him all that I could. I care for him even though were miles apart. I'm in college and he is getting ready to try to start life on his own. He wants to get a divorce and see his children. But it is so difficult to do so. He needs my help. So it isn't for the money, not for the stablity. I feel unconditional love for this man and all I want to do is to care for him. He recently proposed to me and wonders if I will stay faithful. I will, I promise to do so. Love is something i believe you do not for the betterement of your current situation, or the things you can get out of it. I believe love is God, and what he has done for us. Christ died on the cross knowing what sins we would commit, knowing people would not take him. But he did so anyway, because he loved us and wanted to save us from hell. If we take him, and accept him into our life, then it is possible to have eternal life. All I want with this man is him. He has changed my perspective on homlessness, poverty, and age and time itself. He is a hispanic, 49, homeless, jobless man with no one else to love him. No family, little friends and people on his side to help him out. He loved his family, his wife, and wanted the best for her and his dearest children.I will take him for his life, for his problems. All i want to do is help him and give him my love. He needs me. And I'm sure I'll need him. He held me when I was scared and brought me closer to Christ again. And he helped fall back into love after I was sure I never wanted it anymore. I ask God to bless him and to care for him. I count the hours I will hold in my arms again as my husband, and I as his wife. Love is true, never hateful, never selfish, and always a gift of God to have for eachother. For any of the people on this site going through the pain and confusion or the joy and happiness they have found. I am happy for you, and wish the best for you for all of the relationships you are in. Thank you for this advice and thank you. I hope I can take him again and will love him for all the time we will have left together. Time is precious. Don't listen to the anger and hate of others that offer no idea or views of a different perspecitive. Its a different story when you see it through someone else's eyes and look past your judgements and pre concived ideas. Open your heart. Understand people for people, not for age, money, and other things that will fade and wither. He was a wealthy man who had many things. His wife loved him then. But he lost his job and couldn't support the luxury lifestyle she once had. She left him with nothing. Love is unconditional. Let it be strong wherever you are.

    By Freia

2011-09-05 14:54:42

Hello all,  I've spent a while reading through these posts and am greatly encouraged by the thought that there are many younger women around who have followed their true feelings and have been able to have the relationships they dreamed of without letting age be a barrier.  I have just turned 20 and have been attracted to a Royal Air Force work colleague age 40 for a year now. It's taking a very long time but I believe the very small things that I do for him secretly, and the small things I do to be with him are helping him to realise that I am interested and that it's ok even if there's an age difference. I think he is beginning to notice, and it's best that way, since subtlety and a gentle approach suggest that I am not approaching him for money, safety, sex or career possibilities. It is true. I just want to share my life with him, go mountain biking, motorcycling, hill-walking, sight-seeing, kite-surfing, kayaking, eating out, going to the cinema or the coffee shops in town, people-watching, whatever makes us happy.  I am just worried that perhaps one thing that is holding back any action on his part towards progressing our formal work-related chats is the chance that he fears I will reject him or be repelled or unnerved by the thought that an older man likes me. Then again, I could simply be misreading all of the signs or detecting ones which just aren't there! Somehow though, I doubt this.  Well, I do wish everyone here truly enjoyable and fulfilling days, free from doubt, guilt and worry.  Freia J W :)

    By Kelly

2011-09-04 10:42:49

Im 19, nearly 20. To cut a long story short, theres this man whos 55. Ive known him a while and one day we kissed and it all began from there. We started as sex buddies, but then I started to grow strong feelings for him. Then he told me he loved me. We are so good together, we laugh, we cuddle, i stop the night at his house. However, he has four children, who are older than me. he has never been married. We have to keep our relationship a secrate and its killing me what can i do?

    By Bobo

2011-09-03 00:38:36

I'm 19 and that guy is 27. We are taking the same French class. I had a crush for him because of his mature appearance and good personality. Although I only want to have sex with him at first, now I want to start a relationship with him. But our family background is too different and his economic status is really bad. Plus I am going back to the states half a month later... Really dont know what to do now...

    By ghicz06

2011-08-26 21:28:40

I'm badLy inLOVE with 73 yrs oLd guy.. i'm oNly 25.. but it doesn't matter were haPpy together.. he's divOrced anyway.. i'm just afraid tO Lus him someday bec. he's toO OLd, i hOpe we can stay together for a very, very LoNg time.. i dOn't waNt to Lus HIM,

    By jhezsie

2011-08-26 21:19:09

I'm deepLy inLOVE with a 73 yrs olD MAN.. im'm oNLy 25 but its ok with me.. i'm hapPy with him, he's divOrced anyway.. and were haPpY beiNg together.. =)

    By just me

2011-08-21 05:18:59

Hi, I'm 32 and I'm in love with a 61 year old man. I never expect I would feel this way to him. I always looked at him like a boss, he's even my idol as a person. We have a professional level of relationship for years and our respect to each other as friends is tested. Whenever I have problems, even if he's far, I always found relief opening up things to him, but that feeling is only like I have found a mentor. Just recently, I noticed that there is already something special on how he treated me. There were times that I was already uncomfortable but I would just think since he grew up in US, he adopted American way in treating girls, a gentleman. I am a single mother and I can see that he is fond of my kid. At first, I tried to ignore it and think instead that it’s all about his kindness to me and my kid. He would start telling me how he cared a lot about us. I was again uncomfortable with it so I kept my distance. Until one time that he need to introduce me personally to our associates as he is going back to US for months and that requires us for an out of town trip. We have much time together and through our conversations, that’s when he became so obvious to me with his feelings. This time, I no longer felt like keeping my distance from him. It’s just so suddenly when I felt like wanting his embrace. But still, I manage to project myself like I am not catching up things he tried to made clear to me. That is for 2 reasons, first to keep our professional relationship, and secondly because he is married. Something special actually happened between us on the last night of our trip. Now, he’s away (in US) for 3 months. He will be back soon in November. Before he left, he expressed his feelings and said he’s willing to wait whenever I am ready to commit to him. For the first time, I am now willing to commit to someone and that’s him but my problem is, he is married. He asked me about commitment because he and his wife is on the process of filing divorce. Still a lot of things to consider on my side, my family, I am not certain they would understand why to an old guy knowing as well he is married. Oh his side, even if he tells me they are already on the process of filing divorce, I have a feeling that he and his wife can still save their marriage. We always communicate thru email and phone because we have business matters to discuss with. Both of us are hesitant to discuss the personal relationship we started before he left. From my end, I don’t want to put pressure on him. I don’t want to be the reason of him pursuing divorce with his wife. I don’t want to be an instrument of a broken family. And from his end, two things I can see. First, he might be also hesitant to ask me of committing to him as his marital status isn’t settled yet. Or secondly, he himself might have changed his mind and wanted to keep his marriage. Right now, I’m hurting. Good heavens because I am still strong enough to ignore the pain. I know time will come, so soon before he gets back here, I am me again like who I am before when I wasn’t in love with him. Thanx….

    By justme

2011-08-21 05:15:58

An older man can definitely find love in a younger woman, in my opinion. When two people who are compatible are lucky enough to find each other and fall in love, then age should not be too much of a concern. Some people are said to have an old soul while others are thought to be young at heart. We can't help who we fall in love with, and if the feelings are reciprocated then why should age get in the way? I have dated men who were younger than me and also men who were older than me and I have always had a much stronger connection with the older man. I have found that the younger men I dated were just little boys acting like men, whereas the older man was a man. Older men know who they are, they know what they want from life and they're not afraid to pursue it without looking for permission from anyone else. Older men know how to romance a woman, they appreciate who she is and try to support and advise her on her goals and ambitions. A lot of younger men don't know how to handle a real woman. They feel intimidated by her and instead of encouraging her in her pursuits they try to bring her down to size and expect her main focus to be him and his priorities. Older men are more secure within themselves. They have experienced enough of life to know what it's all about. They know when to work hard and also when to relax and enjoy life. A younger woman brings out the boy in the older man. She helps him to see the fun, more light hearted side of life again, while he can bring stability and security to her. Older men aren't afraid to be emotional and express how they feel, which is a joy to the younger woman who has spent previous relationships with younger men wondering if he cared about her at all. An older men has a wealth of knowledge and experience which is so interesting to a younger woman. He is an entertaining conversationalist and can offer a balanced perspective and opinion on certain aspects of life. I think the union of an older man and a younger woman can often be a near-perfect liaison. They both appreciate the different qualities in each other and are often the ideal complement to each others lives. Hi, I'm 32 and I'm in love with a 61 year old man. I never expect I would feel this way to him. I always looked at him like a boss, he's even my idol as a person. We have a professional level of relationship for years and our respect to each other as friends is tested. Whenever I have problems, even if he's far, I always found relief opening up things to him, but that feeling is only like I have found a mentor. Just recently, I noticed that there is already something special on how he treated me. There were times that I was already uncomfortable but I would just think since he grew up in US, he adopted American way in treating girls, a gentleman. I am a single mother and I can see that he is fond of my kid. At first, I tried to ignore it and think instead that it’s all about his kindness to me and my kid. He would start telling me how he cared a lot about us. I was again uncomfortable with it so I kept my distance. Until one time that he need to introduce me personally to our associates as he is going back to US for months and that requires us for an out of town trip. We have much time together and through our conversations, that’s when he became so obvious to me with his feelings. This time, I no longer felt like keeping my distance from him. It’s just so suddenly when I felt like wanting his embrace. But still, I manage to project myself like I am not catching up things he tried to made clear to me. That is for 2 reasons, first to keep our professional relationship, and secondly because he is married. Something special actually happened between us on the last night of our trip. Now, he’s away (in US) for 3 months. He will be back soon in November. Before he left, he expressed his feelings and said he’s willing to wait whenever I am ready to commit to him. For the first time, I am now willing to commit to someone and that’s him but my problem is, he is married. He asked me about commitment because he and his wife is on the process of filing divorce. Still a lot of things to consider on my side, my family, I am not certain they would understand why to an old guy knowing as well he is married. Oh his side, even if he tells me they are already on the process of filing divorce, I have a feeling that he and his wife can still save their marriage. We always communicate thru email and phone because we have business matters to discuss with. Both of us are hesitant to discuss the personal relationship we started before he left. From my end, I don’t want to put pressure on him. I don’t want to be the reason of him pursuing divorce with his wife. I don’t want to be an instrument of a broken family. And from his end, two things I can see. First, he might be also hesitant to ask me of committing to him as his marital status isn’t settled yet. Or secondly, he himself might have changed his mind and wanted to keep his marriage. Right now, I’m hurting. Good heavens because I am still strong enough to ignore the pain. I know time will come, so soon before he gets back here, I am me again like who I am before when I wasn’t in love with him. Thanx….

    By alannah

2011-08-03 03:57:56

ok its come to this im 18 and realy like this 26 yr old.. he says he has falling for me he bassically already has im more worried about the age difference we have been textin for over 8months talkd about everything but yet never met up :( we talk to eachotha nearly everyday all day iv wanted to meet up ages ago he was kinda shy we hav both admitted we are attracted to each other but wat to do now? my head is all over the place help!

    By maharlika

2011-08-01 11:49:18

Well, I'm 19 yr/old and my boyfriend is 50, we've met at my very young age of 17 and he was 48.. he supported me financially since now and then, before i played him like a basketball,he said to marry me, he loves me, he cares for me, he's my inspiration after all i realized we're developing each other..until one day a big problem came to us.. he needs to go back to states to deal of his problem, YES it was hurt until now.. i'm still waiting for him to come home, it's been along time, its almost more than a year of waiting,, God tested our love in any ways, I thank God for putting our love in the ho seat to testify our love.. hopefully he's coming pretty soon to marry me.. I love you babe I will love you forever and only you, we'll grow old together, I'll take care of you wen you getting weak..mwaaaaaaah

    By Queen B

2011-07-06 06:50:03

I am 32 years old and I am in love with a man that is 50... And my neighbor, he and I have spent many countless nights just talking... He is so smart and I honestly feel as if that is one of the reasons I have fallen in love with him. Once our conversations turned into dinner into movies into falling asleep together into making love.. I feel as if this man has really changed my life and made me feel that is it ok to love.. Not to mention he is "wicked" in bed.... Damm I love that man..

    By red

2011-07-01 20:52:14

i am 22 years old and i cant believe that these things can happen at my age falling in love with a 55 year old man. i am used to look at handsom young men. It started with just a cake and end up having this mutual feelings. we both make each other happy in a way that we both have so much in common. he gives me the warmth feeling and best attention.he is mature enough... and has a lot to say about life. in exchange, he never experience the freedom i express to him... but sad thing is that, he is married..

    By no-name

2011-06-24 03:29:51

Im actually in a relationship with a 35 years old man and come acrossed this article purposely. Frankly, as a young adult, 19 yrs old, I fell in love with the guy because of his maturity and stable emotion. I also get security in term of financial and unconditionl love. Sex with him is amazing :) and we share a lot of common things. So, I think age is not really important as long as the couple meets each other's standards and everything would be fine. ~cheers~

    By Nannette

2011-06-21 01:05:07

When I was 14 I fell hard and fast for a wonderful man of 22...it was a tragedy because my parents broke up the relationship. However, my feelings toward dating never changed. I just have no use for those my age. I want stability and love, not empty sex and immaturity. I've always been many years ahead of my age. Now I am happily in love with a man is 5 years older than me. Hey, in reality, 5 years is not even that big of a gap ;)! Love is love- if you can make it work, don't let ANYONE shoot you down.

    By shareen

2011-06-17 18:13:03

help me!!! i falling in love with a guy.. im only 17 on august going 18, falling in love with a guy age 31.. my parent dun like we together.. what should i do.. i know he really love same goes to me too i really love him.. but the problem is our parent..we are not going to be together right? but still i will let him go, because he got girlfriend already and they decide to marriage

    By Jrl

2011-06-10 21:43:07

I am 23 soon 24, I have always been more mature than people my age. All the guys I have dated have been no less than 4 years older than me. The eldest I've dated was 17 years older than myself. Recently I'm slowly falling for a man who is 60. 37 years in age difference....he showers me with compliments on a daily basis. And says we should get married because we're both Yankee fans. I thought he was in his 40s before I found out his age. I feel maybe my soul mate? Or is it a growing obsession? My heart skips the moment I see him. If we end up loving each other great...marriage isn't an issue. I can live happily with the love of my life without being married, its a legal document of claiming one another. I believe in vows to one another though. Is the age difference too big?

    By Beauty

2011-06-08 16:44:28

Im 18 and im madly in live with my 43yr old boyfriend and father of our unborn child. I enjoy his maturity and his unique style of class. Although people look at us weirdly ive never felt so happy and alivd in my life and i truly love every moment of him!

    By Judith

2011-05-26 21:02:16

Hi im judith, and im 13 and madly in love with this great guy (around age of 24) that works at my school, i dont know how to start a relationship with him even though i know he likes me, im afraid something bad might happen! i dont want him to lose his after school job because of me, how can we do this? HELP ME!!!

    By reallove100

2011-05-11 17:25:37

hi im 16 year and im in love with 100 year old man ......pls help

    By Zamera

2011-04-17 20:09:03

I am 16 and i am in love with a man that is 23 years of age.but im having a problem he has a beautiful daughter and her mother is out of control

    By Joanna

2011-04-10 15:16:30

My name is Jo, Im 17 and Im in love with a 38 year old man. I love his level of maturity, and I feel like i bring out the kid in him. The thing about guys my age, is that most of them are looking to get in your pants. By the time a man is 30+ years old, he is ready to settle down. I mean everything to my baby and he means the same to me. Age is only a number. People would be so quick to judge if I told them my bf is 21 yrs older than me. As long as there's a strong connection between us, nothing is gonna pull us apart. If anyone feels discouraged that their significant other is so many years younger/older than them, just know that as long as you and this person share love, nothing else matters

    By Cat

2011-04-08 04:03:06

i am completely in love with a 48 year old man. i am 27! i have never felt this way before about anyone! i have been in love before but not like this. he has given me the drive i needed in my life and treats me like a woman deserves to be treated. i am totally addicted to him. we have been in each others lifes now for 10 months and i can honestly say i cant imagin my life without him in it. when were together its just u in our little bubble, nothing else matters. i love him with all my heart and i make sure i tell him everyday.

    By William

2011-04-06 21:40:53

I am 51 and my wife is 20 and we could not be happier. We've been together for 2 years and I never thought love and life could be so good. We enjoy the same music and movies, traveling and just hanging out on the couch at night. Our love life is fantastic. She appreciates me and gives me a new energy for life and I give her emotional and financial security and stability. She loves me to hold her and she always needs to be touching me or holding my hand. The best part is she gets very jealous if I even look at another girl! I was married to someone my own age for a long time and I was miserable. That has all changed. Age really is just a number.

    By Kareem Al Qahwahji

2011-03-27 21:39:49

♥I never thought it would be possible. I'm a tamed lion.♥ my girl is 23, I'm 36. And I love her so.

    By Marie

2011-03-25 12:34:58

Well I'm a 16 year old girl in high school and I'm madly in love with my 38 year old English teacher. Even though most of the girls at school thik he is so sexy, it's way more than His sex appeal that attracts me. It's all the little things like the way he talks, walks, and just litens to me. Even since I'd first started that class we have been building a strong bond as friends. But it has taken all of me to resist the want and need to just reach out and stroke his face. Most of my classmates have seen the way I act with him and they have already been teasing me about it. And of course it's playful and they don't think i could actually have feelings like that for a teacher, I play it off as if they are right. It's all a joke. But deep inside my heart is aching because I know nothing can ever come out of him and I but just friends. I don't know what to do anymore. My feelings are limited for other people due to all the feelins that a reserved for him. How do you get over someone like this? I really need help.

    By Stan

2011-03-16 08:46:56

I'm 64 and my girl is 20. we have been together for 2 years. I love her so much and she does me. Our sex life is the best for both of us, it last for hours. My problem is that she uses me for money, but I understand, she is poor and has a baby to take care of. She could have any guy she wanted, but she chose me, I feel like the luckest guy in the world to have that sweat young thing next to me. I sometimes think its a dream. I dont know how much longer this will last. I sure she wants another baby but I feel like I'm to old and I wouldn't want to leave it without a dad. I getting older and I will soon be ill or die. I don't know what to do. but i do know we love each other and it is always hard for us to part. Right now things are fantistic, but how about a few more years. I just wish I could turn back time so we could live a full life together. I love her so much

    By evelynnna38

2011-03-15 10:00:54

Im 38 yrs old women who is in love with a 58 yr old man. He treats me good and the sex is even great. I am divorced so is he. SO this realtionship is perfect for us we both have kids already. and live with one now well they live with us. He is just so perfect just only if he asked me to marry him ill be complete.

    By Car

2011-02-20 15:28:47

I'm well not in love but have such strong feelings for a man that is almost 32 years different. I just wish I could tell hi or do something about it but I can't and it hurts so much...

    By Franchesscca

2011-02-20 13:41:21

I think the reason why women like older men has to do something with their fathers. I personally never got along with mine, no hugs no kisses, there was small talk but he never accepted me, maybe i'm looking for those things from someone else whom is also older.

    By JC

2011-02-18 11:35:56

I'm a 29 years old women and i have a 69 year old man that is in love with me. He treats me so good, doesn't judge me, supports me and yes of course spoils me. He's not a regular 69 year old man, clearly! I so enjoy spending time with him, i love our conversations, his stories and he makes me laugh. We haven’t had sex yet, I'm nervous too however so turned on by the thought of it. I've never been with an older man before; mostly they have been between 5 to 8 years younger than me. So my concern is.... If i continue to spend time with my older man I will end up not being able to control falling in love with him, then in time I'll have to make the choice to tell my family. Which they will be shocked (he is older than my father by 10 years plus I'm younger than all his children) When that shock wears off, I'm faced with the fact that i want children, and if i have a child with him. Let’s face it! Our child will sooner or later grow up fatherless. So what the heck I'm i to do! It’s a pity he isn't 20 years younger :(

    By Franchesscaa

2011-02-15 21:52:48

This sounds a little weird, but I am 16 years of age and I am madly in love with this older man who is 40 years old. The weirdest part is he is my therapist! Were so close, and i just want him to wrap his arms around me. I don't know what to do because i know it will never happen, even though he is divorced, but i cant get rid of my feelings. They have been torturing me for a good year now. until i become of age because then ill go after him, what should i do ?!?

    By Beth

2011-02-13 19:54:52

I have always seemed to have had older bf's some mature some not so, none so far worked out, I've been recently going through a stage in thinking i'd like to find a nice guy my own age (26) that every1 will except but this just doesnt seem to be happening....Ive had a friend for 4 years now who is 43 and he has only ever been a friend, there has been the odd hint in the past we may have stronger feelings for one another but thats as far as ive let it go, ive been single for 2 years and have started to think about just how much we have in common, our views on life, children, he makes me laugh every time i see him (2-3 times a week) we know each other very well and i feel he is waiting for me to give the go ahead...life is so confussing, so many people think it is so wrong and i know where they are coming from trust me but will i ever meet another person that makes me as happy? I do wish some1 else would come along my own age who i can relate to as well as this 18year older man but how long do you wait? is it right or wrong? Its so right yet so wrong at the same time...ggguuurrhhh!

    By JS

2011-02-05 10:19:44

I am 48 white male, she's 24 black female who I met when she was 17. I love her she is in the final year of law school and we are perfect together. Her dad left when she was 5 she had a white daddy syndrome, I fulfilled her desire and she begs me for my baby which will happen after she graduates.

    By Nicole

2011-02-02 14:59:37

I started seeing a man of 42 and I'm 26.He has been married for 22 years the last 10 they haven't been happy.We met at work.At the time we met I was in a relationship that was going downhill we became friends through that. Later on he told me he had feelings for me and couldn't hide it anymore said he was prepared to leave his wife. My relationship ended the next day I couldn't deny it anymore there was something there and I wanted to know what that was. A week later he left we stayed in a hotel together best week of my life. His wife had found out that he was seeing me and now is trying everything to get between us. Within that week we had both got layed off from work, he had no choice but to go back. Neither of us having any money.He told me just recently he went back to see if I would still stick around said he found it hard to believe that I love him as much as I do he also told me he is in the process of leaving for good this time.My problem is I can feel he loves me first time in my life I have felt it, I can't understand why he wouldn't want to leave his wife for me except for his daughter told him she would have nothing to do with him. I just don't know how much time a person needs I know it's a hard thing to do to get up and walk out I just wish i knew for sure that he was telling me the truth I'm scared of getting hurt.

    By venning

2011-01-29 19:55:47

I am 37 years old and I think I am falling inlove with a 22 year old woman. I did not intend for this to happen. I was ending a disapointing 10 year marriage which produced no children. I met this young woman, and at first meeting, we didnt get along well. But then time went by, and we texted and chatted and started realizing we really liked each other. Then we eventually started dating and are still dating now 4 months later. I think we are both falling in love. For some reason we get along well. She is very mature for her age and we have many common interestes and life goals. Again, I did not choose to fall in love,it just happened. thats how life works sometimes.

    By a.a.

2011-01-26 07:02:45

im 18 and im inluv wd my prof who is 47 now.he doesnt know about my feelings but i want hm 2 know it..i want him 2 love me.he is sngle and i thnk that he need some1 to take care of him,i want it to be me.i am deeply inluv with him.wat will i do