Why Women Fall In Love With Older Man

    By JULIANA

2012-12-06 05:25:32

i just want to start this way by giving a huge thanks to this man DR ABULU for what he has just done today in my life . at first i thought it won,t work because many has failed me before but on a second thought i said let me just try and to my best surprises Micheal my husband that said and insist he has nothing to do with me and my family called me immediately this great man DR ABULU of abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo.com ) cast a love spell on him and started begging for forgiveness well i love him so much and at once i accepted him back and today we are both living in pace and harmony, all the same the glory is to this man DR ABULU of abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo.com DOC I THANK YOU once again for you are worthy of all the thanks in my mouth today and forever am grateful and shall ever be to you . i also want to say if you are out there passing through a similar stuff or issues you can contact him today and i bi live him will also help you out ,,,,

    By kate

2012-11-28 03:09:36

My ex-boyfriend dumped me 0ne week ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Hindu spell. You are truly talented and gifted. Email: ehisalextemple@gmail.com is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man and he can also help you to solve any problem…Lol I am very happy…..,,,,

    By paul

2012-10-11 14:47:51

my name is Paul shark, i want to thank Dr Balogun for helping me to recover my ex back and my job that i was sack. i was almost dieing when i share the problem i am having with my friend who show me the way to DR BALOGUN temple, i never thought he can help me because i was scammed by false spell caster who pretend to be real, well i my friend told me i should give him a trial that this man also help him when he was in trouble, so i give him a chance to prove his power, but behold he cast a spell for me and i was called back in my office and the second day of it my ex call my phone and apologize to me that she is sorry for every thing that happened that i should forgive her. reader out there DR BALOGUN is the best spell caster that i can ever recommend for any body seeking for the help of spell caster, please contact him via email: finalsolutionspell@gmail.com once you contact him all your problems will be over and you will also share a testimony like me. once more finalsolutionspell@gmail.com is the final solution to your problems.

    By Shiva

2012-10-04 21:18:32

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    By Natalia

2012-08-18 12:21:09

He told me to stay calm and let the spell do it’s work, which indeed it did. Not even 3-4 days later, Wells called me and asked me out for a drink. He apologized to me and sincerely begged me for forgiveness and to give him another chance. I loved this man so much, I could not say no. He now treats me like a princess better than before if I may add. Dr. Ogun made a believer out of me. I wrote to him and apologized for my rudeness and lack of trust and patience. He also explained to me that magic is not like a push-button kind of thing. It sometimes takes longer than anticipated but it always works and he was right. You may also need help in your love life and i recommend him as he is a great spell caster. Contact him via: Templeofloveandmoney@gmail.com

    By John

2012-08-12 03:14:34

My Name is John. I will love to share my testimony to all my friends because i never believe i will have my girlfriend back. When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status.when i went to her to her place of work she told her friends she never want to see me.I tried all i could do to have her back with me but all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to meet my aunt.I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how she embarrass me in her place of work,he told me he is going to help me but don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him,he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back home the following day and i called him when i got home,he said he is busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 3 days that is Thursday. My girlfriend called me at exactly 10:35am on Thursday and apologies for all she had done, she said she never knew what she's doing she promised not to do that again.It was like am hallucinating when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my girlfriend called me on phone apologies. Am posting this to the forum for everybody that is interested in meeting the man for help this is his email address :Ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com All i have to say is THANK YOU DOCTOR

    By Tara

2012-08-12 03:13:44

Hi My name is Tara just want to share my experience with everybody on how i got my love back. I was married for 5 years with 3 kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had misunderstanding it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce. I tried my best to make him change his mind and stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn't want to loose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce. I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster Dr Ode who eventually helped me out. I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice. He did a cast a love spell on him. Within 3 days he called me and was sorry for all what happened,he moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too. Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there will need his help You can email him: Obolospelltemple@gmail.com

    By Viena

2012-07-11 10:02:23

Hi all, feeling better to know that there are many people in the same situation as mine. I'm 26 and he is 44 now. We're different people living in different countries - Asia and America. We've been in a relationship for more than 3 years although we meet each other only once a year! This is such a dream!!!! Who knows where we're led to but we're still in love with each other! All the best for you!

    By Rockstar

2012-07-08 20:34:27

Hi everyone, I am 25 years old female madly in love with my 53 yr old bf. I've dated in the past but i didn't know what falling in love meant until I meet this guy. He likes me a lot too but he is always super busy due to the nature of his work so we can't spend lots of time together:( i cant stop thinking about him and all I can see is being with him forever. Its almost scary that i would do anything for him at this point. He always tells me that I wouldn't be happy 10 yrs from now but I don't agree with it. He is very nice, sweet, gentle and his smile is breathtaking. I love his eyes,his face, his smile, his laugh, his voice and everything. Could someone give me an opinion? Am i being too crazy?

    By Emily

2012-07-04 20:59:18

I'm 25 when I was 22yrs old I married a 38 yr old man although it did not last long we are now devorced but had nothing to do with age, I am currently seeing a 52 yr old man, big diffrence but the way we see it is that age is just a number,anything can work as long as you both work on it,some ppl do think it's wrong to date a much older man but stuff 'em do what makes you happy.

    By kushinilia

2012-06-26 21:36:53

hi all, i heard your emails, and wow, i was blown away by the age difference and all of that shit. but do you know guys, ive being with a 41yr old, his 10yrs older then i am, being with him for 2 years, sex, relationships, intimacy and all that shit, i dont think its a good idea. i tried it, and to me, it seems im not me, i need to grow at my own pace, of course the 41 yr old has lived his life, i m 30 and i can see the difference in his energy. its not what i want, have sex and that its, i want more, ive told him that but im not getting it, he's totally into me, body, mind and soul, that sort of shit, its the level headedness i want, i want to be young, i want my youth and being with a 41yr old, i am not getting it.please guys, its a bad idea. look for someone at least 3-5 yrs olders, nothing more then that.

    By Britney McKee

2012-06-20 08:41:31

Hi, I just need someone 2 tell me if its ok to fall in love with a man of 88? I'm 32. He's 56 yrs older than me, its hard 2 believe even myself. He doesn't know either. I feel ashamed and don't know what to do. Any advice would be much appreciated!

    By sydney

2012-06-18 20:33:07

im 12 and i fell in love with a 15 year old boy i met him around march i didnt really care for him at first i use to tese him and didnt think twice about likeing him i didnt back then but now as i start to know him longer i relize he was sweet kind person much more mature then the kids at my school i didnt know i like him for awhile i thought my feeling were not real i was wrong i relized my feeling WERE real and he likes me i denide it for so long i should have relized it sooner he confess to me today tomorrow im giveing him my anwser and its gonna be YES!

    By sandra

2012-06-15 09:09:54

im 49yrs old my bf is 46yrs old going out for six years and cannot decide if i should move in because an much older man that i knew in my past likes me i cannot make up who to choose please help.

    By carol

2012-06-12 23:17:42

Hi people am 33yrs and married to a 64yr old man.He's all I wanted in the beginning but ma biggest prob is that he's not giving me sex like I need it.I honestly lov him but he leaves me horny every day.The most we do it is twice a month.When. he does it he's good but he tells me he's tired all time not even on weekends.What shld I do?

    By amy

2012-05-30 05:49:40

hi there, im recently back froma holiday in spain. im 20 years old and i fell for a 45 year old man. i keep telling myselfn it was just fun but i cant stop thinking about him. what does this mean? that im into that sort of thing. i slept with him and i really enjoyed it but im just scared of what everyone will think and that they will think he is a perv. he was really lovely and im thinking of ngoing back over to see him. do we thhink this is a good idea and am i old enough to know what to think and do when it comes to going to a different country to pick up a hooliday romance by myself?

    By Erin

2012-05-28 12:12:50

hey people i love ur comments to know i'm not the only person in the world that likes older men my name is Erin and i'm 13 and I am in love with my caretaker who is in his 50s possibly married preferably hates me i luv him so bad i dont know what to do i try to catch his attention which by the way doesnt work he frowns at me and I CANT TALK TO HIM my friends think i'm obseesed which i am i cant concentrate in lessons HELP AND DOUBLE HELP.

    By Liz

2012-05-26 04:45:38

Hi, i'm 21 going 22 and i think i'm in love with my lecturer, he's 44 and yes it has been 5 months he's been teaching us. Most students find him weird, but i find him rather interesting, he actually thought i'm 17, and yes he did mention he's old enough to be my father (which was sort of true). But he usually peeks at what i'm doing, and out of all the students in the university, i'm the one who always talk to him. Of course he has his own views, and i have mine, as well as his looks, he actually acts like my boyfriend does. One weird thing was, last thursday night, he took a few shot of me, and only me without my friends... Any suggestions??

    By Fernanda

2012-05-14 22:04:49

Hello I'm 24 years old am madly inlove with a 63 year old he is all I ever wanted just him I careless about his money cause money dont buy love well I really care about him I just hope he feels the same way? :( theres is no man like him that is gonna make me feel the same way am praying for both of us.

    By Fluffy

2012-05-12 10:06:21

I am 31 currently trying to end it with a nutty 53 year old, that makes me feel rotten. However over the past 8 years I've been involved on and off with someone (properly twice) who has stolen, broken and kept my heart dangling for much that time, he says he can't resist me but he is a 51year old commitment phobe. Castles are spun in the sky, then he freaks and runs, I adore his daughter, he acts and looks a decade less then he is and he is enormously, musical, spiritual and intelligent. If it wasn't for the constant pulling away I'd be in heaven. He could ask me to marry him tomorrow and I wouldn't think twice. After open relationships, younger idiots etc, being with a person you can relax with, who understands deep matters, is spiritual, passionate, able to enjoy stillness together as well as chat and personal spark is magical. I understand he has to think of his daughter that I'm very close with (which I feel is very precious and I think of her often.) But I don't understand why he fears us so much, when he admits he has such strong feelings. If I could allay them and make him feel as special as he makes me feel, (till he runs scared) I would be the happiest, luckiest women alive. (He has enough dosh to get by, and a beautiful cosy cottage, so anyone thinking its a sugar daddy thing be wrong. I never feel the age difference, and I love the fact he lives by his means, and is just an attractive vibrant, interesting man.) Just want him to be my man again.

    By Vlad

2012-05-09 10:17:07

I am 21 years old and have been in love with the younger sister of one of my good friends. She is 14 but she looks and acts like she's my age. She's almost exactly like me and we even think the same. Her and I have been close friends for a while now and on occasion we flirt but she only loves me as a brother. It wasn't until last summer that I admitted my true feelings for her. She rejected it but thank God it didn't make our current relationship in a weird spot. My feelings for her only get stronger by the days but it kills me every time I talk to her or hang out with her because she does not want me. Now, she's been talking to this guy who she hasn't seen in about 8 years who is my age and they talk on the phone nonstop. She recently told me they are in love. This of course pissed me off and I told her I would not support them being together. I still can't decide which hurts more. The fact that she only loves me like a brother and has no romantic interest in me. Or the fact that her heart belongs to another guy who is the same age as me. It's so hard to cope with these strong feelings I have for her. Can this kind of thing still be wrong when it feels so right at the same time?

    By lady89

2012-05-03 17:40:46

well i read almost all the post and i got encourage to write my story... im 23 and they guy i fell in love is 41 going on 42.. age it's just a number no one knows when there gonna fall inlove with and speacilly no one know at what momment. to be honest i was againts ppl being with older guys , but hey change my mind.. i just fell for him.. the way he was. how he treated me.. how he would stare at.. even do it would freak me out.. cas of his eyes he had the most georgues hazled eyes ...he went to tennessee and he broke it off with me.. he told me that HOW could he be sure that i was in love with him... well my dear i'm truely, madly, deeply in love with u.. and i would never feel what i felt for u with no one else.. cas no one is gonna make me feel the way u made me feel... i just wich YOU could have belive me that i did and still in love with you.. but live goes on..every day i wich i could have the courage to call and tell u.. how i feel about u.. but i can't i'm scared that ur gonna tell me that u found someone else.. that u love someone else that ain't me... i still love u wero and i will always love u even if i don't have u...good bye were ever u may be.. i wish u the best.. AND I WISH U GUY/GIRLS THE BEST IN UR RELANSIONSHIP.. CAS TRUSTH IS THE NUMBER ONE THING IN A RELANSIONSHIP.

    By lala

2012-05-02 12:29:06

I wanna tell you my story im a 30 yr old woman in love crazy in love with a 63 yr old man he is the absolut love of my life. Theres nothing about him I dont love he stole my heart and i cant get it back we have been dating for 4 months and recently he broke it of and i have fallin apart we had a love and i know it was mutaul like no other he makes me feel like a real life princess he takes excellent care of me and in return i love him like ive never loved anyone i was so shattered when he got upset with a desion i made he cut off all contact when i need him the most i was hit by a mack truck it was outta of left feel the love making was so out of this world it was like fire works he said the same thing i couldnt belive he could jus turn and walk away from me over something so stupid recently we have been back talking we plan to get together thursday night and watch a movie we had made plans for before the break up i have my fingers crossed i hope we can work things out i only want him we have a 33 yr age gap but i dont see it he is all i want. he has been in few relationships over the yrs but i think things were so good with us that it scared him he never wants to marry and niether do i we are on the same page but i think the commitment scared him and he found any way out that he could but i know he loves me he called me and told me no matter what he will always take care of me and help me with bills and what ever else i need but i dont want his damn money i make my own he is overly extremly wealthy sometimes i feel he loves his money over me but i want him back i need his love and his touch its like im hooked everything reminds me of us. I kno i rock his world i just wonder if he misses me. i will find out thursday. I will enjoy every minute with him i cant wait i love him so much.

    By randy

2012-04-14 01:19:28

hey you guys ,i have read most of ur articles ,and well u see im a 24 years old , with enough experience ,soon to be a lawyer which means i have as many as contacts as u can imagine ..i have seen lots of man in different ages , 28 , 35 ,..till i find the guy i really want , he is 46 he came in a mission in my country , he has x wife and a gf who is not inlove with with 3 kids ,and guess what he found the true love with me , that in short time he wanted really a marriage with me or with no one else ,i personally come from different culture , different religion , and age difference , and we decide to make a movie for that , and wish all u would know that when it comes to love u would definetly not think of reasonable things , cz its reasonable to not be reasonable when it comes to love matters ,if he was older then you , it doesnt mean that the guy cant make you happy enough because ur more energetic than him or what so ever , becz you see my bf is so athletic , that u cant even think hes 46 , i personally run in marathons and i smoke , and he can run better then i do , i would say he can win in marathons ,and more of that , he gives passion , hes romantic ,hes a real man who can really protect you , i have never seen a man before like him ,i would sacrifice the whole world just to be with him , cz he draws a smile on my face and thats what matters , cz u can marry a guy as your age and you might divorce , what matters is how u guys can get a long , to be honest , and as for me , we are alike , hes a 46 years old , he do lot of sports ,he dances like wow , he laughs and has sence of humour ,when its coming to serious matters hes a real mature man , and when it comes to fun time , hes just as 24 years old .i got to get both in one age , u just need to appreciate the love and know who to love and who to choose . And my advice to u all , never ever let someone tells u what to choose in life , u can accept it or refuse it , but in the end nobody knows your good but your self .and we all know we have consequences in life , even if the guy is your age , so people do what you think its right and whats good for both of you as a couple . people will always have comments and its never going to end . thank u. Randy

    By Alone in indiana

2012-03-25 17:36:02

Well wish you all luck and young ladies scare me. Now days my girlfriend left me when. I haven't had a cycle wreck because I got hurt bad and sort of handicapped now who would want some like me being In my 40s now

    By michael

2012-02-07 22:53:38

Well folks, things turned wierd.. The 22yr I fell in love with just stoped cold. She asked me if I would show more affection in front of others even though im 54, I said ok. So I started to do that and show how much I love her and all of the sudden she quit. No leaning, no hand holding, no snuggling, even the kisses slowed down unless i do it.. I helped her out of her shell and then salt was thrown on me.. It really hurt. Make sure guys that that you let your gaurd down slowly because its hard to repair. My heart is broken so beware gentlemen. But dont turn them away either because its a like a blessing when it happens, even though pain follows sometimes.. PEACE ALL!

    By Michael

2012-02-05 12:38:38

I'm a 54yr old man and i've fallen in love with a 22yr old woman. I'm so crazy about her it hurts. I never thought I could fall in love again since I divorced in 1988. I've dated a few times but it wouldnt work. After 17 yrs of not dating anybody it happened, and I just have to tell somebody. She says she is in love with me but its hard to believe.. I thank you for your stories because it helps alot. She lived about 45 minutes away and I would pick her up to stay a few days with me each week and I love it. She met a friend of mine that is 29 and she is going to rent a spare room from him so she can live here. I hope things continue with us because I have not felt a Love like this in sooooo long. I feel like alittle kid again in school with a mad infatuation with her. I dont want to lose her but i'm still afraid she may get tired of me. So I guess I have to take one day at a time and pray for the best. To all the young ladies out there that like older men, keep it up and if you feel a love like I do, Go For It! I feel like my life was in a rut and she changed my life and I feel blessed to have met her..... Thank You, Michael

    By richard

2012-02-04 11:07:31

i love a 30 yr old girl divorcee, she loves me never finished sex i backed ogg though i was ready and able i am 86 financially secure help her with her colloge tution etc.

    By annymous

2011-12-10 22:36:39

i just read all of u r life stories and will say all of u that u all are lucky,i fall in love with her when she is 20 and i am 25 we loved so truely to each other and got married also,we stayed only 6-7 months together,then she left me bcoz i kept my brother with me to help him in his career.many arguments happen,fight happen,but for that is it right she will leave me simply and go,i don't know here wat is the meaning of true love here,now i am 31 and completely alone,i am missing her always,wish she would come back to me oneday

    By annymous

2011-12-10 22:35:50

i just read all of u r life stories and will say all of u that u all are lucky,i fall in love with her when she is 20 and i am 25 we loved so truely to each other and got married also,we stayed only 6-7 months together,then she left me bcoz i kept my brother with me to help him in his career.many arguments happen,fight happen,but for that is it right she will leave me simply and go,i don't know here wat is the meaning of true love here,now i am 31 and completely alone,i am missing her always,wish she would come back to me oneday

    By D

2011-12-06 20:36:36

Once your over 40 noone cares I'm 46 and my bf is 67 That's 21 years But if I was 26 and he was 47 Or 16 and 37 it would be frowned upon Age is a number The sad thing is the likely hood of having him for less time I adore him

    By js

2011-12-01 13:44:28

my story is difrent i am cosin there is a man who is in love with me but iam older then him about 23 years old he says that he loves me but i dont think so .

    By sara

2011-12-01 13:09:34

i am 16 years old and i am in love with 41 year old man but idk if it is possible to live togather cuz he is divorced and he have 7 year son but i am not sure about my fellings idk . :( maybe i need a father fellings or i didnt find confdens so i take it from him help me .

    By really lost

2011-11-27 11:38:21

Hi all~ it is a release that i am not alone in this~ i've been read most of you guys' posts...and i did find that mine is really the same as Crazy's. seems like we've been in the exactly the same situation. i am 26, and he is 20 years older then me. and we are also long distance love...and i do not care what the other people would see me, but there is really one thing that makes me lost...it is my family~ i love my family and also i love him...i do not want to lose any of them in my life...but for my family, it seems like it would never be a thing that can be discussed. either i choose him or my family, there is no way in between...i am really lost...i just simply want to live a life the way i want, and want the people around me to be happy...but now...standing in the middle of this thing...have to make a decision between the people i deeply loved...what should i do...i really need help...and i am really lost....please...i need your help

    By Naji

2011-11-25 09:08:52

Hi, I am a 44 y/o single male. I like a female shop assistant who is in her early twenties. I go to that supermarket only to see her. She gave me lots of sings which shows that she likes me, I try not to talk to her because my conscious refuse it. I have been in this situation for 2 years, and yet she still gives me the same sings. I honestly like her, but my conscious says ‘No’. I don’t know what to do. Can you help me?

    By Redrose

2011-10-26 10:35:35

Hi to all of you! Well, after reading all your wonderful comments, I would like to share my "love story" too. It is all began a couple of years ago. I'm a 20 yrs old girl (now) and I have a relationship with a 53 yrs old man. It happened from a game, we live at the same house. At the beggining I didn't pay much attention to him.. I was young with free spirit. But the game goes on for days, months, then years. I realized that slowly2 we start loving eachother!! Btw.. I never hanging around with guys of my age..most of them are so immature!! Anyway.. It's a beautiful sensation loving and to be loved by someone that really care about you.. I feel so secure and satisfied when I'm with him. I think that when there is TRUE LOVE..no matter the gap of our age, the colour of skin, and what religion we are practising. I'm happy, proud and so IN LOVE with him!! Our problem is: he still married and he's got a beautiful child... but I believe in our love!!

    By Sweetie

2011-10-08 17:47:43

Hi Nanette i feel you. i am 43 and he will be 48. (5 yrs)older than i am. But that doesnt matter to me. He is so wonderful to me. He is attentive, caring, kind, respectful, thoughtful, and makes me feel im the only woman in his life. But there is a twist. We met while i was going through a divorce from a 21 year marriage and he had just came out of a 3 1/2 year relationship. He still has contact with his ex but he says its strickly platonic. Im trusting in him that he is being truthful with me because i cant afford to go through hurt again. I thought i would never find happiness again until he came along. His ex is older than him and he said they are only friends. She wants him back but he says he is in love with me. he spends all his time with me when he not working. i told him she is being very disrespectful by calling him all through the day and nite knowing he has a girlfriend. what should i do?

    By Robin

2011-09-18 09:05:02

Hi, I'm a 24 yr old woman, "single Mom of one" inlove with a 41 yr old man, I am going through a Divorce, and yes that might sound crazy, but I was not inlove with my Husband, we rushed into it for other reasons.(Real Dumb I know!) When I was falling apart I met this guy on this Partyline, partylines are awful and I was shocked to have bumped into him, We talked for a Month and I was starting to look forward to our convos. When he tells him he has a Girlfriend and hes Blind. I was really surprised, but not upset, cause i was looking only for friendship. His girlfriend and him are long distance and she hardly checks in on him, but he defends her actions. Since I've been going through this divorce I've had to go through so much, since my exhusband was abusive. I consider this Guy my BESTfriend, Hes always there for me whenever I need him, he'll buy something for me if I can't buy it myself at that moment, hes the only one who gets me and sees me clearly more then I do myself. We'd have phonesex all the time, and flirt, and it was amazing, even if it was over the phone. He always made me laugh and I him, I feel like we understood eachother and we never got bored with one another. Now its been 10 months since we've been talking and his girlfriend is coming up for a two month visit he is pushing me away, and it hurts so bad I cry all the time and I am barely making it on the inside, I miss him and his voice and his laugh, I wish he felt the same, he sends me mixed sigals all the time, its like he really likes me too, but hes so old fashion he believes our relationship would never workout and hes comfortable with his girlfriend of 8 yrs. He says he has strong feelings for me but he has someone, he loves her and he can't just drop her for me. I feel like I'm being used and I want to be near him cause he makes me feel amazing and happy but my heart breaks cause of all of this, It hurts to be near him, I've told him so many times That Even though we've Never met, that I would want to be with him, he makes me feel alive. So I emailed him (p.s. He has Jaws, its a program that lets the computer speak to you) I told him that I deleted his email, and phone number, that I will no longer talk to him and that I was thankful for him being a great friend, and to wish him the best. He responded in a email that said, "where the fuck does that come from? Stop with the pity party, just cause I am busy... Fine if you want to run, go ahead" Something like that, and I haven't responded, I secretly hope and pray he emails me back and says something, that lets me know how he feels. but I don't think he realizes the reason I'm not speaking to him is because of my feelings for him, What should I do? any Comments will help, Thankyou! =(

    By xoxo

2011-09-16 09:28:38

thanks God Im not alone in this world

    By crazy

2011-09-16 03:42:47

Hi, i am a 25 year old girl, and i fall in love with a man who is 20 years older then me. We've been together for almost 3 years, and he had a kid about my age, and well he is grandpa a year ago~ I am just insanely in love with this man, i do not know if you guys have any problems with telling you parents or if they agreed with you guys to be together...i am afraid of losing my family..but i also wanted to be with him for the rest of my life~ we make each other happy, we had a good time every time i visit him or he visit me, we are kinda of a long distant love...but it does not bother me at all~ can someone tell me what should i do? i need help...and it is good to know that i am not alone doing this~ and wish all of us having a good life~ all the best~

    By mikta

2011-09-13 12:32:32

hi am 36 yr old female and i am seeing a man in 50.he is amazing better than any guy i have had long relationships with........there no pressure we can cuddly.we are open...i hope that it will progress into the future he has kids off hand but i would love one baby with him,,all the best to you all

    By David

2011-09-07 15:41:15

Im in love with a 23 year women I’m 52 .. I don’t care..!! we get along great and see eye to eye with her, more so then a women my age..

    By Celestina

2011-09-07 13:48:12

I must be thought as a freak and a fool for the simple fact I share the same experience with most of the women on this site. I've been told that young women are naive and foolish while older men only want them for the sex. I don't know what to believe for that matter. Age is a number in my opinion, along with race is just a color and looks will fade. I'm in love with a man in a dire situation. Im 18 going onto 19 and he just turned 49. 30 years was a lot to take in especially for the fact he is older than my father. I'm not sure how to take it. But that is just the beginning. He does have children, they are about 3 and 5 years of age. He is married, but his wife is an illegal and has cheated on him. She threw him on the street because he wanted to see his children. He only wanted to hold her and love her like a normal wife and family. But she took him to court for stalking charges and claimed he wanted to see the children only to see her. He went to jail for five months and faces a possible two years in it.He never beat his children or his wife. He only wanted to hold her at night and be romantic with her. He wanted to raise his children and give them the best that they could want, but that was too much and a crime in itself according to her. Him and I met when I was going to work. We met eachother at a bus station. He asked to borrow my phone to call someone and we decided to just chat as I waited for my bus. He got close, but I was scared at first. But God helped us, he's catholic and I'm non-denom. We've gotten closer and I helped him out in any way I could. I fed him, got him a phone, and gave him all that I could. I care for him even though were miles apart. I'm in college and he is getting ready to try to start life on his own. He wants to get a divorce and see his children. But it is so difficult to do so. He needs my help. So it isn't for the money, not for the stablity. I feel unconditional love for this man and all I want to do is to care for him. He recently proposed to me and wonders if I will stay faithful. I will, I promise to do so. Love is something i believe you do not for the betterement of your current situation, or the things you can get out of it. I believe love is God, and what he has done for us. Christ died on the cross knowing what sins we would commit, knowing people would not take him. But he did so anyway, because he loved us and wanted to save us from hell. If we take him, and accept him into our life, then it is possible to have eternal life. All I want with this man is him. He has changed my perspective on homlessness, poverty, and age and time itself. He is a hispanic, 49, homeless, jobless man with no one else to love him. No family, little friends and people on his side to help him out. He loved his family, his wife, and wanted the best for her and his dearest children.I will take him for his life, for his problems. All i want to do is help him and give him my love. He needs me. And I'm sure I'll need him. He held me when I was scared and brought me closer to Christ again. And he helped fall back into love after I was sure I never wanted it anymore. I ask God to bless him and to care for him. I count the hours I will hold in my arms again as my husband, and I as his wife. Love is true, never hateful, never selfish, and always a gift of God to have for eachother. For any of the people on this site going through the pain and confusion or the joy and happiness they have found. I am happy for you, and wish the best for you for all of the relationships you are in. Thank you for this advice and thank you. I hope I can take him again and will love him for all the time we will have left together. Time is precious. Don't listen to the anger and hate of others that offer no idea or views of a different perspecitive. Its a different story when you see it through someone else's eyes and look past your judgements and pre concived ideas. Open your heart. Understand people for people, not for age, money, and other things that will fade and wither. He was a wealthy man who had many things. His wife loved him then. But he lost his job and couldn't support the luxury lifestyle she once had. She left him with nothing. Love is unconditional. Let it be strong wherever you are.

    By Freia

2011-09-05 14:54:42

Hello all,  I've spent a while reading through these posts and am greatly encouraged by the thought that there are many younger women around who have followed their true feelings and have been able to have the relationships they dreamed of without letting age be a barrier.  I have just turned 20 and have been attracted to a Royal Air Force work colleague age 40 for a year now. It's taking a very long time but I believe the very small things that I do for him secretly, and the small things I do to be with him are helping him to realise that I am interested and that it's ok even if there's an age difference. I think he is beginning to notice, and it's best that way, since subtlety and a gentle approach suggest that I am not approaching him for money, safety, sex or career possibilities. It is true. I just want to share my life with him, go mountain biking, motorcycling, hill-walking, sight-seeing, kite-surfing, kayaking, eating out, going to the cinema or the coffee shops in town, people-watching, whatever makes us happy.  I am just worried that perhaps one thing that is holding back any action on his part towards progressing our formal work-related chats is the chance that he fears I will reject him or be repelled or unnerved by the thought that an older man likes me. Then again, I could simply be misreading all of the signs or detecting ones which just aren't there! Somehow though, I doubt this.  Well, I do wish everyone here truly enjoyable and fulfilling days, free from doubt, guilt and worry.  Freia J W :)

    By Kelly

2011-09-04 10:42:49

Im 19, nearly 20. To cut a long story short, theres this man whos 55. Ive known him a while and one day we kissed and it all began from there. We started as sex buddies, but then I started to grow strong feelings for him. Then he told me he loved me. We are so good together, we laugh, we cuddle, i stop the night at his house. However, he has four children, who are older than me. he has never been married. We have to keep our relationship a secrate and its killing me what can i do?

    By Bobo

2011-09-03 00:38:36

I'm 19 and that guy is 27. We are taking the same French class. I had a crush for him because of his mature appearance and good personality. Although I only want to have sex with him at first, now I want to start a relationship with him. But our family background is too different and his economic status is really bad. Plus I am going back to the states half a month later... Really dont know what to do now...

    By ghicz06

2011-08-26 21:28:40

I'm badLy inLOVE with 73 yrs oLd guy.. i'm oNly 25.. but it doesn't matter were haPpy together.. he's divOrced anyway.. i'm just afraid tO Lus him someday bec. he's toO OLd, i hOpe we can stay together for a very, very LoNg time.. i dOn't waNt to Lus HIM,

    By jhezsie

2011-08-26 21:19:09

I'm deepLy inLOVE with a 73 yrs olD MAN.. im'm oNLy 25 but its ok with me.. i'm hapPy with him, he's divOrced anyway.. and were haPpY beiNg together.. =)

    By just me

2011-08-21 05:18:59

Hi, I'm 32 and I'm in love with a 61 year old man. I never expect I would feel this way to him. I always looked at him like a boss, he's even my idol as a person. We have a professional level of relationship for years and our respect to each other as friends is tested. Whenever I have problems, even if he's far, I always found relief opening up things to him, but that feeling is only like I have found a mentor. Just recently, I noticed that there is already something special on how he treated me. There were times that I was already uncomfortable but I would just think since he grew up in US, he adopted American way in treating girls, a gentleman. I am a single mother and I can see that he is fond of my kid. At first, I tried to ignore it and think instead that it’s all about his kindness to me and my kid. He would start telling me how he cared a lot about us. I was again uncomfortable with it so I kept my distance. Until one time that he need to introduce me personally to our associates as he is going back to US for months and that requires us for an out of town trip. We have much time together and through our conversations, that’s when he became so obvious to me with his feelings. This time, I no longer felt like keeping my distance from him. It’s just so suddenly when I felt like wanting his embrace. But still, I manage to project myself like I am not catching up things he tried to made clear to me. That is for 2 reasons, first to keep our professional relationship, and secondly because he is married. Something special actually happened between us on the last night of our trip. Now, he’s away (in US) for 3 months. He will be back soon in November. Before he left, he expressed his feelings and said he’s willing to wait whenever I am ready to commit to him. For the first time, I am now willing to commit to someone and that’s him but my problem is, he is married. He asked me about commitment because he and his wife is on the process of filing divorce. Still a lot of things to consider on my side, my family, I am not certain they would understand why to an old guy knowing as well he is married. Oh his side, even if he tells me they are already on the process of filing divorce, I have a feeling that he and his wife can still save their marriage. We always communicate thru email and phone because we have business matters to discuss with. Both of us are hesitant to discuss the personal relationship we started before he left. From my end, I don’t want to put pressure on him. I don’t want to be the reason of him pursuing divorce with his wife. I don’t want to be an instrument of a broken family. And from his end, two things I can see. First, he might be also hesitant to ask me of committing to him as his marital status isn’t settled yet. Or secondly, he himself might have changed his mind and wanted to keep his marriage. Right now, I’m hurting. Good heavens because I am still strong enough to ignore the pain. I know time will come, so soon before he gets back here, I am me again like who I am before when I wasn’t in love with him. Thanx….

    By justme

2011-08-21 05:15:58

An older man can definitely find love in a younger woman, in my opinion. When two people who are compatible are lucky enough to find each other and fall in love, then age should not be too much of a concern. Some people are said to have an old soul while others are thought to be young at heart. We can't help who we fall in love with, and if the feelings are reciprocated then why should age get in the way? I have dated men who were younger than me and also men who were older than me and I have always had a much stronger connection with the older man. I have found that the younger men I dated were just little boys acting like men, whereas the older man was a man. Older men know who they are, they know what they want from life and they're not afraid to pursue it without looking for permission from anyone else. Older men know how to romance a woman, they appreciate who she is and try to support and advise her on her goals and ambitions. A lot of younger men don't know how to handle a real woman. They feel intimidated by her and instead of encouraging her in her pursuits they try to bring her down to size and expect her main focus to be him and his priorities. Older men are more secure within themselves. They have experienced enough of life to know what it's all about. They know when to work hard and also when to relax and enjoy life. A younger woman brings out the boy in the older man. She helps him to see the fun, more light hearted side of life again, while he can bring stability and security to her. Older men aren't afraid to be emotional and express how they feel, which is a joy to the younger woman who has spent previous relationships with younger men wondering if he cared about her at all. An older men has a wealth of knowledge and experience which is so interesting to a younger woman. He is an entertaining conversationalist and can offer a balanced perspective and opinion on certain aspects of life. I think the union of an older man and a younger woman can often be a near-perfect liaison. They both appreciate the different qualities in each other and are often the ideal complement to each others lives. Hi, I'm 32 and I'm in love with a 61 year old man. I never expect I would feel this way to him. I always looked at him like a boss, he's even my idol as a person. We have a professional level of relationship for years and our respect to each other as friends is tested. Whenever I have problems, even if he's far, I always found relief opening up things to him, but that feeling is only like I have found a mentor. Just recently, I noticed that there is already something special on how he treated me. There were times that I was already uncomfortable but I would just think since he grew up in US, he adopted American way in treating girls, a gentleman. I am a single mother and I can see that he is fond of my kid. At first, I tried to ignore it and think instead that it’s all about his kindness to me and my kid. He would start telling me how he cared a lot about us. I was again uncomfortable with it so I kept my distance. Until one time that he need to introduce me personally to our associates as he is going back to US for months and that requires us for an out of town trip. We have much time together and through our conversations, that’s when he became so obvious to me with his feelings. This time, I no longer felt like keeping my distance from him. It’s just so suddenly when I felt like wanting his embrace. But still, I manage to project myself like I am not catching up things he tried to made clear to me. That is for 2 reasons, first to keep our professional relationship, and secondly because he is married. Something special actually happened between us on the last night of our trip. Now, he’s away (in US) for 3 months. He will be back soon in November. Before he left, he expressed his feelings and said he’s willing to wait whenever I am ready to commit to him. For the first time, I am now willing to commit to someone and that’s him but my problem is, he is married. He asked me about commitment because he and his wife is on the process of filing divorce. Still a lot of things to consider on my side, my family, I am not certain they would understand why to an old guy knowing as well he is married. Oh his side, even if he tells me they are already on the process of filing divorce, I have a feeling that he and his wife can still save their marriage. We always communicate thru email and phone because we have business matters to discuss with. Both of us are hesitant to discuss the personal relationship we started before he left. From my end, I don’t want to put pressure on him. I don’t want to be the reason of him pursuing divorce with his wife. I don’t want to be an instrument of a broken family. And from his end, two things I can see. First, he might be also hesitant to ask me of committing to him as his marital status isn’t settled yet. Or secondly, he himself might have changed his mind and wanted to keep his marriage. Right now, I’m hurting. Good heavens because I am still strong enough to ignore the pain. I know time will come, so soon before he gets back here, I am me again like who I am before when I wasn’t in love with him. Thanx….