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Why Women Fall In Love With Older Man

If you are a man and you're over 35 years old, if you are attracted by younger women but you are afraid of being rejected or not to be taken seriously, you will find out the real thing about this issue in this article.

Let's state an irrefutable fact: most women over 25 and single are already disappointed by men of their age.

And their big problem is to find a mature man that can satisfy their needs.

Here is another fact: in most cases men reach their maturity level after the age of 30.

These women believe that older men won't break their hearts the way younger men have done; they believe that an older man will have the commitment and the willingness required for a long term relationship.

Age indicates maturity, and decision making ability.

Many people believe couples with the same age don't respect each other.

Younger women, on the other hand, enjoy having someone take care of them and are attracted to an older person's accomplishments, economic stability and EMOTIONAL MATURITY.

Make sure you share similar life views and goals, despite your age difference.

Do you both appreciate each other's friends? Do you share the same principles when it comes to family?

So, an age difference of 7 - 15 years can lead to a really great relationship if both partners are willing to. That's because we don't choose who we fall in love with, it simply happens.

David Kwan


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    By Marian Jerry

2014-04-18 18:27:52

Hello every one, I really want to share my testimony to the hearing of the general public on this site about how DR EHI helped me, December 2013, I saw a post on a particular site shearing testimony on how the great spell caster brought back her ex who name is Jerry so I just see it common and i said let me see what will happen because my husband left me and my three kids for another woman just like that, i and my husband was married for six years living happily before i new what was going on, he left me and go for another woman so when i saw the post, i contacted the spell caster on his email and he told me i should not worry that my husband will come back to me in three days after once he finish casting the reunite spell and to my greatest surprise, i now have my husband back to me again and i want to use this medium to let every body know that this is real and if you are out there having this same problem please contact the great spell caster on his email now because he can do the unexpected. his email is or email him directly on his web site . I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK.


2014-04-03 18:57:17

My Name is QUEEN.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for can mail him to I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS:

    By Shakira Elliot

2014-04-03 18:55:51

Shakira Elliot Says Am giving this testimony cos am happy My name is Shakira Elliot from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in June 28th 2013 this year on a business summit. i ment a man called DR JOHN YI YI. He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address: GREAT SHAKES SPEAR i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you. Email Him Through his email address... please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay.. What a powerful man such as DR SHAKES SPEAR.. he is so much powerful.. email him for any difficulties..

    By leonard

2013-10-19 13:39:53

my names are Leonard Wilsonian want to testify to the how world of my good experience with Dr UDUEHI the spell caster, my wife ran away from our marriage after 3 years of marriage because she felt i was not the right man for her due to the fact that she was been deceived by her friends in her working place . and she also took our only son along with her so after she left i was not my self because i loved her so so much so i vowed not to rest until i am able to bring my wife back home because i knew she was be deceived by her friends so i began to look for what to do so one day as i was browsing i saw a post about this Dr UDUEHI of on how he helped a lady to restored her relationship so i decided to give him try believe me when i tell my story to Dr UDUEHI him assure me three days my wife will come back home and that was what actually happened so with these great thing Dr UDUEHI has just done for me i have promise to always share his testimonies for others to hear bye


2013-09-26 05:12:09

THANK to thge author of this site and Dr great oshogum for all he have done in my life, I NORYAN WARLALD I lost my relationship during august. i suspected my ex was into another relationship i could not talk to him about it or even contact a spell caster to help me because of how much i love him. i was scared of losing him after some time My ex left me with so many pains and pregnancy. to another woman since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contact 5 spell casters and 4 of them has rip me off my money without any result. I have Emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster till i was directed by a man to great Dr oshogum because Dr oshogum him help him to get his wife back some times past. so when i contacted Dr oshogum on this site, At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items after he consulted his great and powerful god, it took me three weeks be convince by MR LONGER DUKE and something occur to my mind and i said let me give him a trial. I was very shocked when Ruben called four days after i sent Dr oshogum the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i should allow him back to my heart. sincerely i am very happy that we are together today because he proposed to me last night. sir the great Dr i am very grateful and happy for what you have done for me. I will advise you my friends out there who have emotional problems or health to contact him now via email because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any problem. contact him now with +2348189075265 OR via email contact him now with +2348189075265 via email POSTED by NORYAN WARLALD

    By adrian

2013-09-06 05:53:48

My Name is Mrs. adrian I was married to my husband for 10 years and we were both bless with three children, living together as one love, until 2012 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he stated sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave he the job. since that day, when i called him, he don't longer pick up my calls and he nothing since to come out good. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the lady. Until I met a very good friend of my who was also having a similar problem, who introduced me to a very good love spell caster. But i told her that if it has to do with things that i am not interested, but she said that it has nothing to do with pay first. but the only thing he was ask to do was just to go and buy the items to cast the spell, and that was what she did. And she gave me the spell caster e-mail address and phone number. When i contacted him, i was so surprise when he said that if i have the faith that i will get my husband back in the nest three [3] day, and off which it was really so. but i was so shock that i did not pay any thing to prophet lord, but my husband was on his knells begging me and the children for forgiveness. This testimony is just the price i have to pay. This man Prophet lord is good and he is the author of my happiness. His e-mail address:

    By john

2013-08-27 10:57:38

Hello everyone, i want to use this great means to thank dr Aruvi the mouth peace of the greatest temple of our time the freemercifultemple for bringing my wife and children back to me after 5years of divorce . i was really downcast and every hard earn money and property i have long worked for went down the drain because of the divorce problems.i told a friend of my this my problem and he told me to contact freemercifultemplefor help. i do not believe in this, but i have to try my best it. i contacted him and he told me thing i have to do, and also he cast a spell of return back of love for me.after 1 week my divorce wife who never called me for 5 years called me on that day and ask me that we should see, it was like a dream to me, we meet and she told me that she still love me and want us to come back together again. and also i should forgive her for all she had done to me. it was the love spell i cast on her that make her come back to me, and also my family are now back to me finally and for ever. i want you to contact dr aruvi for the return of your love or ex boyfriend, girlfriend husband or wife back and he will bring them back to you. his email address is

    By sandra

2013-08-27 10:47:15

My name is Mrs sandra from united kingdom i got married at the age of 30 i have only one child and i was living happily .After 5 year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don't really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dreams of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called priest he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him the great doctor. I contacted him And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 4 days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again.So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems contact him. THANKS..

    By mccart

2013-08-27 10:26:20

my name is mccart i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her email is, she is a woman and she is great. wish you good time.

    By nora4

2013-07-18 16:08:42

Hello people on this forum or website , am just an over exerting person today for what this great man call DR ABULU of has just done in my marital life .and i will like you on this forum to help me in thanking he because for the past two years my husband Micheal has been cheating on me with a Russian lady and this has couse the family a lot of problems and our baby Evonne where the one perpetual taking the pain because at this time my husband don't normally come home to ask after the child or care to provide what the child needed so with all this problems i was not happy in my marriage and i started going for different kind of marriage cancelling and looking for solution every where not until this faithful day when i was browsing on the internet i saw a testimony shared by miss Michell from Australia about this DR ABULU of and i as-lo contacted he for help and that was how he gave me some instructions and and i followed what ever he told me and i was surprise when he said to me go my child for all will be fine in 24 hours .and within the 24 hours i actually received a call from my husband who has not called me for some months now asking after the child and i . and that was how was the end of my marriage problems . so this is why i promise to testify to the whole world about this man DR ABULU and if any is also depress with such problems contact he and you will also find success bye NORA

    By sherill

2013-06-14 20:30:48

My husband had been gone for about 13 months, I contacted ophan spell and within a few minutes of speaking with him, I realized that ophan spell was the one person whom I could completely trust. I didn't expect the spell would work so fast. Within 48 hours, My husband was back in my life. After been paid thousands of dollars to other spell caster and got no results at all.. I want to express my warmest gratitude, ophan spell I'll never ever forget all the happiness you gave me. I will still use ophan spell again for further work in the future. You can contact him via his private mail sherill keith from Canada


2012-12-06 05:25:32

i just want to start this way by giving a huge thanks to this man DR ABULU for what he has just done today in my life . at first i thought it won,t work because many has failed me before but on a second thought i said let me just try and to my best surprises Micheal my husband that said and insist he has nothing to do with me and my family called me immediately this great man DR ABULU of ) cast a love spell on him and started begging for forgiveness well i love him so much and at once i accepted him back and today we are both living in pace and harmony, all the same the glory is to this man DR ABULU of DOC I THANK YOU once again for you are worthy of all the thanks in my mouth today and forever am grateful and shall ever be to you . i also want to say if you are out there passing through a similar stuff or issues you can contact him today and i bi live him will also help you out ,,,,

    By kate

2012-11-28 03:09:36

My ex-boyfriend dumped me 0ne week ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Hindu spell. You are truly talented and gifted. Email: is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man and he can also help you to solve any problem…Lol I am very happy…..,,,,

    By paul

2012-10-11 14:47:51

my name is Paul shark, i want to thank Dr Balogun for helping me to recover my ex back and my job that i was sack. i was almost dieing when i share the problem i am having with my friend who show me the way to DR BALOGUN temple, i never thought he can help me because i was scammed by false spell caster who pretend to be real, well i my friend told me i should give him a trial that this man also help him when he was in trouble, so i give him a chance to prove his power, but behold he cast a spell for me and i was called back in my office and the second day of it my ex call my phone and apologize to me that she is sorry for every thing that happened that i should forgive her. reader out there DR BALOGUN is the best spell caster that i can ever recommend for any body seeking for the help of spell caster, please contact him via email: once you contact him all your problems will be over and you will also share a testimony like me. once more is the final solution to your problems.

    By Shiva

2012-10-04 21:18:32

Imagine being able to alter your world to bring back lost lovers, make someone sexually attracted to you,bring trust into your relationship, lose weight, stop smoking, get a promotion or raise, or simply come into big money. All is possible with the astounding power of the High PROPHET OF GODDESS and his outstanding spell casting abilities. You have the power to change the future, change your destiny, E mail me on or view my website and get the things out of life you need to bring success, luck, and happiness.

    By Natalia

2012-08-18 12:21:09

He told me to stay calm and let the spell do it’s work, which indeed it did. Not even 3-4 days later, Wells called me and asked me out for a drink. He apologized to me and sincerely begged me for forgiveness and to give him another chance. I loved this man so much, I could not say no. He now treats me like a princess better than before if I may add. Dr. Ogun made a believer out of me. I wrote to him and apologized for my rudeness and lack of trust and patience. He also explained to me that magic is not like a push-button kind of thing. It sometimes takes longer than anticipated but it always works and he was right. You may also need help in your love life and i recommend him as he is a great spell caster. Contact him via:

    By John

2012-08-12 03:14:34

My Name is John. I will love to share my testimony to all my friends because i never believe i will have my girlfriend back. When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status.when i went to her to her place of work she told her friends she never want to see me.I tried all i could do to have her back with me but all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to meet my aunt.I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how she embarrass me in her place of work,he told me he is going to help me but don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him,he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back home the following day and i called him when i got home,he said he is busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 3 days that is Thursday. My girlfriend called me at exactly 10:35am on Thursday and apologies for all she had done, she said she never knew what she's doing she promised not to do that again.It was like am hallucinating when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my girlfriend called me on phone apologies. Am posting this to the forum for everybody that is interested in meeting the man for help this is his email address All i have to say is THANK YOU DOCTOR

    By Tara

2012-08-12 03:13:44

Hi My name is Tara just want to share my experience with everybody on how i got my love back. I was married for 5 years with 3 kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had misunderstanding it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce. I tried my best to make him change his mind and stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn't want to loose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce. I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster Dr Ode who eventually helped me out. I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice. He did a cast a love spell on him. Within 3 days he called me and was sorry for all what happened,he moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too. Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there will need his help You can email him:

    By Viena

2012-07-11 10:02:23

Hi all, feeling better to know that there are many people in the same situation as mine. I'm 26 and he is 44 now. We're different people living in different countries - Asia and America. We've been in a relationship for more than 3 years although we meet each other only once a year! This is such a dream!!!! Who knows where we're led to but we're still in love with each other! All the best for you!

    By Rockstar

2012-07-08 20:34:27

Hi everyone, I am 25 years old female madly in love with my 53 yr old bf. I've dated in the past but i didn't know what falling in love meant until I meet this guy. He likes me a lot too but he is always super busy due to the nature of his work so we can't spend lots of time together:( i cant stop thinking about him and all I can see is being with him forever. Its almost scary that i would do anything for him at this point. He always tells me that I wouldn't be happy 10 yrs from now but I don't agree with it. He is very nice, sweet, gentle and his smile is breathtaking. I love his eyes,his face, his smile, his laugh, his voice and everything. Could someone give me an opinion? Am i being too crazy?

    By Emily

2012-07-04 20:59:18

I'm 25 when I was 22yrs old I married a 38 yr old man although it did not last long we are now devorced but had nothing to do with age, I am currently seeing a 52 yr old man, big diffrence but the way we see it is that age is just a number,anything can work as long as you both work on it,some ppl do think it's wrong to date a much older man but stuff 'em do what makes you happy.

    By kushinilia

2012-06-26 21:36:53

hi all, i heard your emails, and wow, i was blown away by the age difference and all of that shit. but do you know guys, ive being with a 41yr old, his 10yrs older then i am, being with him for 2 years, sex, relationships, intimacy and all that shit, i dont think its a good idea. i tried it, and to me, it seems im not me, i need to grow at my own pace, of course the 41 yr old has lived his life, i m 30 and i can see the difference in his energy. its not what i want, have sex and that its, i want more, ive told him that but im not getting it, he's totally into me, body, mind and soul, that sort of shit, its the level headedness i want, i want to be young, i want my youth and being with a 41yr old, i am not getting it.please guys, its a bad idea. look for someone at least 3-5 yrs olders, nothing more then that.

    By Britney McKee

2012-06-20 08:41:31

Hi, I just need someone 2 tell me if its ok to fall in love with a man of 88? I'm 32. He's 56 yrs older than me, its hard 2 believe even myself. He doesn't know either. I feel ashamed and don't know what to do. Any advice would be much appreciated!

    By sydney

2012-06-18 20:33:07

im 12 and i fell in love with a 15 year old boy i met him around march i didnt really care for him at first i use to tese him and didnt think twice about likeing him i didnt back then but now as i start to know him longer i relize he was sweet kind person much more mature then the kids at my school i didnt know i like him for awhile i thought my feeling were not real i was wrong i relized my feeling WERE real and he likes me i denide it for so long i should have relized it sooner he confess to me today tomorrow im giveing him my anwser and its gonna be YES!

    By sandra

2012-06-15 09:09:54

im 49yrs old my bf is 46yrs old going out for six years and cannot decide if i should move in because an much older man that i knew in my past likes me i cannot make up who to choose please help.

    By carol

2012-06-12 23:17:42

Hi people am 33yrs and married to a 64yr old man.He's all I wanted in the beginning but ma biggest prob is that he's not giving me sex like I need it.I honestly lov him but he leaves me horny every day.The most we do it is twice a month.When. he does it he's good but he tells me he's tired all time not even on weekends.What shld I do?

    By amy

2012-05-30 05:49:40

hi there, im recently back froma holiday in spain. im 20 years old and i fell for a 45 year old man. i keep telling myselfn it was just fun but i cant stop thinking about him. what does this mean? that im into that sort of thing. i slept with him and i really enjoyed it but im just scared of what everyone will think and that they will think he is a perv. he was really lovely and im thinking of ngoing back over to see him. do we thhink this is a good idea and am i old enough to know what to think and do when it comes to going to a different country to pick up a hooliday romance by myself?

    By Erin

2012-05-28 12:12:50

hey people i love ur comments to know i'm not the only person in the world that likes older men my name is Erin and i'm 13 and I am in love with my caretaker who is in his 50s possibly married preferably hates me i luv him so bad i dont know what to do i try to catch his attention which by the way doesnt work he frowns at me and I CANT TALK TO HIM my friends think i'm obseesed which i am i cant concentrate in lessons HELP AND DOUBLE HELP.

    By Liz

2012-05-26 04:45:38

Hi, i'm 21 going 22 and i think i'm in love with my lecturer, he's 44 and yes it has been 5 months he's been teaching us. Most students find him weird, but i find him rather interesting, he actually thought i'm 17, and yes he did mention he's old enough to be my father (which was sort of true). But he usually peeks at what i'm doing, and out of all the students in the university, i'm the one who always talk to him. Of course he has his own views, and i have mine, as well as his looks, he actually acts like my boyfriend does. One weird thing was, last thursday night, he took a few shot of me, and only me without my friends... Any suggestions??

    By Fernanda

2012-05-14 22:04:49

Hello I'm 24 years old am madly inlove with a 63 year old he is all I ever wanted just him I careless about his money cause money dont buy love well I really care about him I just hope he feels the same way? :( theres is no man like him that is gonna make me feel the same way am praying for both of us.

    By Fluffy

2012-05-12 10:06:21

I am 31 currently trying to end it with a nutty 53 year old, that makes me feel rotten. However over the past 8 years I've been involved on and off with someone (properly twice) who has stolen, broken and kept my heart dangling for much that time, he says he can't resist me but he is a 51year old commitment phobe. Castles are spun in the sky, then he freaks and runs, I adore his daughter, he acts and looks a decade less then he is and he is enormously, musical, spiritual and intelligent. If it wasn't for the constant pulling away I'd be in heaven. He could ask me to marry him tomorrow and I wouldn't think twice. After open relationships, younger idiots etc, being with a person you can relax with, who understands deep matters, is spiritual, passionate, able to enjoy stillness together as well as chat and personal spark is magical. I understand he has to think of his daughter that I'm very close with (which I feel is very precious and I think of her often.) But I don't understand why he fears us so much, when he admits he has such strong feelings. If I could allay them and make him feel as special as he makes me feel, (till he runs scared) I would be the happiest, luckiest women alive. (He has enough dosh to get by, and a beautiful cosy cottage, so anyone thinking its a sugar daddy thing be wrong. I never feel the age difference, and I love the fact he lives by his means, and is just an attractive vibrant, interesting man.) Just want him to be my man again.

    By Vlad

2012-05-09 10:17:07

I am 21 years old and have been in love with the younger sister of one of my good friends. She is 14 but she looks and acts like she's my age. She's almost exactly like me and we even think the same. Her and I have been close friends for a while now and on occasion we flirt but she only loves me as a brother. It wasn't until last summer that I admitted my true feelings for her. She rejected it but thank God it didn't make our current relationship in a weird spot. My feelings for her only get stronger by the days but it kills me every time I talk to her or hang out with her because she does not want me. Now, she's been talking to this guy who she hasn't seen in about 8 years who is my age and they talk on the phone nonstop. She recently told me they are in love. This of course pissed me off and I told her I would not support them being together. I still can't decide which hurts more. The fact that she only loves me like a brother and has no romantic interest in me. Or the fact that her heart belongs to another guy who is the same age as me. It's so hard to cope with these strong feelings I have for her. Can this kind of thing still be wrong when it feels so right at the same time?

    By lady89

2012-05-03 17:40:46

well i read almost all the post and i got encourage to write my story... im 23 and they guy i fell in love is 41 going on 42.. age it's just a number no one knows when there gonna fall inlove with and speacilly no one know at what momment. to be honest i was againts ppl being with older guys , but hey change my mind.. i just fell for him.. the way he was. how he treated me.. how he would stare at.. even do it would freak me out.. cas of his eyes he had the most georgues hazled eyes ...he went to tennessee and he broke it off with me.. he told me that HOW could he be sure that i was in love with him... well my dear i'm truely, madly, deeply in love with u.. and i would never feel what i felt for u with no one else.. cas no one is gonna make me feel the way u made me feel... i just wich YOU could have belive me that i did and still in love with you.. but live goes on..every day i wich i could have the courage to call and tell u.. how i feel about u.. but i can't i'm scared that ur gonna tell me that u found someone else.. that u love someone else that ain't me... i still love u wero and i will always love u even if i don't have u...good bye were ever u may be.. i wish u the best.. AND I WISH U GUY/GIRLS THE BEST IN UR RELANSIONSHIP.. CAS TRUSTH IS THE NUMBER ONE THING IN A RELANSIONSHIP.

    By lala

2012-05-02 12:29:06

I wanna tell you my story im a 30 yr old woman in love crazy in love with a 63 yr old man he is the absolut love of my life. Theres nothing about him I dont love he stole my heart and i cant get it back we have been dating for 4 months and recently he broke it of and i have fallin apart we had a love and i know it was mutaul like no other he makes me feel like a real life princess he takes excellent care of me and in return i love him like ive never loved anyone i was so shattered when he got upset with a desion i made he cut off all contact when i need him the most i was hit by a mack truck it was outta of left feel the love making was so out of this world it was like fire works he said the same thing i couldnt belive he could jus turn and walk away from me over something so stupid recently we have been back talking we plan to get together thursday night and watch a movie we had made plans for before the break up i have my fingers crossed i hope we can work things out i only want him we have a 33 yr age gap but i dont see it he is all i want. he has been in few relationships over the yrs but i think things were so good with us that it scared him he never wants to marry and niether do i we are on the same page but i think the commitment scared him and he found any way out that he could but i know he loves me he called me and told me no matter what he will always take care of me and help me with bills and what ever else i need but i dont want his damn money i make my own he is overly extremly wealthy sometimes i feel he loves his money over me but i want him back i need his love and his touch its like im hooked everything reminds me of us. I kno i rock his world i just wonder if he misses me. i will find out thursday. I will enjoy every minute with him i cant wait i love him so much.

    By randy

2012-04-14 01:19:28

hey you guys ,i have read most of ur articles ,and well u see im a 24 years old , with enough experience ,soon to be a lawyer which means i have as many as contacts as u can imagine ..i have seen lots of man in different ages , 28 , 35 ,..till i find the guy i really want , he is 46 he came in a mission in my country , he has x wife and a gf who is not inlove with with 3 kids ,and guess what he found the true love with me , that in short time he wanted really a marriage with me or with no one else ,i personally come from different culture , different religion , and age difference , and we decide to make a movie for that , and wish all u would know that when it comes to love u would definetly not think of reasonable things , cz its reasonable to not be reasonable when it comes to love matters ,if he was older then you , it doesnt mean that the guy cant make you happy enough because ur more energetic than him or what so ever , becz you see my bf is so athletic , that u cant even think hes 46 , i personally run in marathons and i smoke , and he can run better then i do , i would say he can win in marathons ,and more of that , he gives passion , hes romantic ,hes a real man who can really protect you , i have never seen a man before like him ,i would sacrifice the whole world just to be with him , cz he draws a smile on my face and thats what matters , cz u can marry a guy as your age and you might divorce , what matters is how u guys can get a long , to be honest , and as for me , we are alike , hes a 46 years old , he do lot of sports ,he dances like wow , he laughs and has sence of humour ,when its coming to serious matters hes a real mature man , and when it comes to fun time , hes just as 24 years old .i got to get both in one age , u just need to appreciate the love and know who to love and who to choose . And my advice to u all , never ever let someone tells u what to choose in life , u can accept it or refuse it , but in the end nobody knows your good but your self .and we all know we have consequences in life , even if the guy is your age , so people do what you think its right and whats good for both of you as a couple . people will always have comments and its never going to end . thank u. Randy

    By Alone in indiana

2012-03-25 17:36:02

Well wish you all luck and young ladies scare me. Now days my girlfriend left me when. I haven't had a cycle wreck because I got hurt bad and sort of handicapped now who would want some like me being In my 40s now

    By michael

2012-02-07 22:53:38

Well folks, things turned wierd.. The 22yr I fell in love with just stoped cold. She asked me if I would show more affection in front of others even though im 54, I said ok. So I started to do that and show how much I love her and all of the sudden she quit. No leaning, no hand holding, no snuggling, even the kisses slowed down unless i do it.. I helped her out of her shell and then salt was thrown on me.. It really hurt. Make sure guys that that you let your gaurd down slowly because its hard to repair. My heart is broken so beware gentlemen. But dont turn them away either because its a like a blessing when it happens, even though pain follows sometimes.. PEACE ALL!

    By Michael

2012-02-05 12:38:38

I'm a 54yr old man and i've fallen in love with a 22yr old woman. I'm so crazy about her it hurts. I never thought I could fall in love again since I divorced in 1988. I've dated a few times but it wouldnt work. After 17 yrs of not dating anybody it happened, and I just have to tell somebody. She says she is in love with me but its hard to believe.. I thank you for your stories because it helps alot. She lived about 45 minutes away and I would pick her up to stay a few days with me each week and I love it. She met a friend of mine that is 29 and she is going to rent a spare room from him so she can live here. I hope things continue with us because I have not felt a Love like this in sooooo long. I feel like alittle kid again in school with a mad infatuation with her. I dont want to lose her but i'm still afraid she may get tired of me. So I guess I have to take one day at a time and pray for the best. To all the young ladies out there that like older men, keep it up and if you feel a love like I do, Go For It! I feel like my life was in a rut and she changed my life and I feel blessed to have met her..... Thank You, Michael

    By richard

2012-02-04 11:07:31

i love a 30 yr old girl divorcee, she loves me never finished sex i backed ogg though i was ready and able i am 86 financially secure help her with her colloge tution etc.

    By annymous

2011-12-10 22:36:39

i just read all of u r life stories and will say all of u that u all are lucky,i fall in love with her when she is 20 and i am 25 we loved so truely to each other and got married also,we stayed only 6-7 months together,then she left me bcoz i kept my brother with me to help him in his career.many arguments happen,fight happen,but for that is it right she will leave me simply and go,i don't know here wat is the meaning of true love here,now i am 31 and completely alone,i am missing her always,wish she would come back to me oneday

    By annymous

2011-12-10 22:35:50

i just read all of u r life stories and will say all of u that u all are lucky,i fall in love with her when she is 20 and i am 25 we loved so truely to each other and got married also,we stayed only 6-7 months together,then she left me bcoz i kept my brother with me to help him in his career.many arguments happen,fight happen,but for that is it right she will leave me simply and go,i don't know here wat is the meaning of true love here,now i am 31 and completely alone,i am missing her always,wish she would come back to me oneday

    By D

2011-12-06 20:36:36

Once your over 40 noone cares I'm 46 and my bf is 67 That's 21 years But if I was 26 and he was 47 Or 16 and 37 it would be frowned upon Age is a number The sad thing is the likely hood of having him for less time I adore him

    By js

2011-12-01 13:44:28

my story is difrent i am cosin there is a man who is in love with me but iam older then him about 23 years old he says that he loves me but i dont think so .

    By sara

2011-12-01 13:09:34

i am 16 years old and i am in love with 41 year old man but idk if it is possible to live togather cuz he is divorced and he have 7 year son but i am not sure about my fellings idk . :( maybe i need a father fellings or i didnt find confdens so i take it from him help me .

    By really lost

2011-11-27 11:38:21

Hi all~ it is a release that i am not alone in this~ i've been read most of you guys' posts...and i did find that mine is really the same as Crazy's. seems like we've been in the exactly the same situation. i am 26, and he is 20 years older then me. and we are also long distance love...and i do not care what the other people would see me, but there is really one thing that makes me is my family~ i love my family and also i love him...i do not want to lose any of them in my life...but for my family, it seems like it would never be a thing that can be discussed. either i choose him or my family, there is no way in between...i am really lost...i just simply want to live a life the way i want, and want the people around me to be happy...but now...standing in the middle of this thing...have to make a decision between the people i deeply loved...what should i do...i really need help...and i am really lost....please...i need your help

    By Naji

2011-11-25 09:08:52

Hi, I am a 44 y/o single male. I like a female shop assistant who is in her early twenties. I go to that supermarket only to see her. She gave me lots of sings which shows that she likes me, I try not to talk to her because my conscious refuse it. I have been in this situation for 2 years, and yet she still gives me the same sings. I honestly like her, but my conscious says ‘No’. I don’t know what to do. Can you help me?

    By Redrose

2011-10-26 10:35:35

Hi to all of you! Well, after reading all your wonderful comments, I would like to share my "love story" too. It is all began a couple of years ago. I'm a 20 yrs old girl (now) and I have a relationship with a 53 yrs old man. It happened from a game, we live at the same house. At the beggining I didn't pay much attention to him.. I was young with free spirit. But the game goes on for days, months, then years. I realized that slowly2 we start loving eachother!! Btw.. I never hanging around with guys of my age..most of them are so immature!! Anyway.. It's a beautiful sensation loving and to be loved by someone that really care about you.. I feel so secure and satisfied when I'm with him. I think that when there is TRUE matter the gap of our age, the colour of skin, and what religion we are practising. I'm happy, proud and so IN LOVE with him!! Our problem is: he still married and he's got a beautiful child... but I believe in our love!!

    By Sweetie

2011-10-08 17:47:43

Hi Nanette i feel you. i am 43 and he will be 48. (5 yrs)older than i am. But that doesnt matter to me. He is so wonderful to me. He is attentive, caring, kind, respectful, thoughtful, and makes me feel im the only woman in his life. But there is a twist. We met while i was going through a divorce from a 21 year marriage and he had just came out of a 3 1/2 year relationship. He still has contact with his ex but he says its strickly platonic. Im trusting in him that he is being truthful with me because i cant afford to go through hurt again. I thought i would never find happiness again until he came along. His ex is older than him and he said they are only friends. She wants him back but he says he is in love with me. he spends all his time with me when he not working. i told him she is being very disrespectful by calling him all through the day and nite knowing he has a girlfriend. what should i do?

    By Robin

2011-09-18 09:05:02

Hi, I'm a 24 yr old woman, "single Mom of one" inlove with a 41 yr old man, I am going through a Divorce, and yes that might sound crazy, but I was not inlove with my Husband, we rushed into it for other reasons.(Real Dumb I know!) When I was falling apart I met this guy on this Partyline, partylines are awful and I was shocked to have bumped into him, We talked for a Month and I was starting to look forward to our convos. When he tells him he has a Girlfriend and hes Blind. I was really surprised, but not upset, cause i was looking only for friendship. His girlfriend and him are long distance and she hardly checks in on him, but he defends her actions. Since I've been going through this divorce I've had to go through so much, since my exhusband was abusive. I consider this Guy my BESTfriend, Hes always there for me whenever I need him, he'll buy something for me if I can't buy it myself at that moment, hes the only one who gets me and sees me clearly more then I do myself. We'd have phonesex all the time, and flirt, and it was amazing, even if it was over the phone. He always made me laugh and I him, I feel like we understood eachother and we never got bored with one another. Now its been 10 months since we've been talking and his girlfriend is coming up for a two month visit he is pushing me away, and it hurts so bad I cry all the time and I am barely making it on the inside, I miss him and his voice and his laugh, I wish he felt the same, he sends me mixed sigals all the time, its like he really likes me too, but hes so old fashion he believes our relationship would never workout and hes comfortable with his girlfriend of 8 yrs. He says he has strong feelings for me but he has someone, he loves her and he can't just drop her for me. I feel like I'm being used and I want to be near him cause he makes me feel amazing and happy but my heart breaks cause of all of this, It hurts to be near him, I've told him so many times That Even though we've Never met, that I would want to be with him, he makes me feel alive. So I emailed him (p.s. He has Jaws, its a program that lets the computer speak to you) I told him that I deleted his email, and phone number, that I will no longer talk to him and that I was thankful for him being a great friend, and to wish him the best. He responded in a email that said, "where the fuck does that come from? Stop with the pity party, just cause I am busy... Fine if you want to run, go ahead" Something like that, and I haven't responded, I secretly hope and pray he emails me back and says something, that lets me know how he feels. but I don't think he realizes the reason I'm not speaking to him is because of my feelings for him, What should I do? any Comments will help, Thankyou! =(

    By xoxo

2011-09-16 09:28:38

thanks God Im not alone in this world

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