How to Approach Attractive Woman
As a dating coach, I've showed literally hundreds of dudes how to approach girls in all types of situations.
I have coached hundreds of guys on how to walk up to girls and start conversations in all kinds of various environments. Many of them have been very successful. I've seen shy dudes who were scared to approach girls turn into "approach machines" who all of a sudden began to meet new girls every day -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!
But any guy's confidence can be shaken when he spots an INCREDIBLY hot woman that he wants to walk up to and start an interaction with. You know, the kind of hottie who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the area to stop and stare.
So what's the most effective technique for approaching this type of attractive woman ?
The answer to this, actually, is not that complicated: you use the same approach techniques that I advise you use with any woman, but soon after you use one of my "bridging" strategies to get her engaged in the interaction with you, you use Teases and Cold Reads to NEUTRALIZE her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.
So what are Cold Reads and Teases, exactly? Well, they're two very powerful tactics that are explained in detail in my Women Persuasion Seduction manual.
For now, the short answer is that Teases are playful things you say to females to "mess with them" a little bit, and establish that you're NOT intimidated or super-impressed by them.
If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not insufferable -- you're treating her as you would treat an old buddy -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them.
By using Teases with a scorching-hot woman, in a strategic way, you are showing her that you're not fazed by her good looks and you are relating to her as a normal person.
This is the opposite of how most dudes behave around a super hot girl. The typical guy can't even carry on a fun, compelling conversation because he's so WORRIED about saying the wrong thing!
As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a woman about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other dude in the room would ever guess.
A good Cold Read makes you look unbelievably perceptive and it instantly creates a bond between you and the hottie. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS deep, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.
So after you use an effective opener to begin the conversation -- and there are dozens of these in my seduction manual -- you'll use a Transition strategy to move things onto the right subject.
Then, you can use Teases and Cold Reads:
TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I got the wrong idea about you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the subject)
COLD READ: "Y'know something Cindy, I can sense that a lot of people get the wrong impression of you when they first see you. You have this sort of cold exterior, but it's because you've been hurt before by someone that you trusted, and since then you've been kinda cautious about meeting new people. But they don't realize what a sweet, sensitive person you really are underneath."
This Cold Read works exceptionally well with really scorching-hot females because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really sexy females can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often desperate to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, hidden talents, and so on.)
When you combine these techniques with the other conversational methods that I explain in my seduction manual Women Persuasion Secrets, you have the recipe for a conversation that will set off all of her "attraction buttons" and drive up her interest and curiosity.
Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and where you take it from there is up to you.
Dean Cortez
Bullet Proof Seduction Founder
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